Should i tell him?

Question

ok my bf and i are going to a movie at 4 and he wants to kiss and rub my breasts and he also wants to rub them if they are hurting. and i'm ok with that but if he does it alot, then it will make me fall for him everytime he does that. but he told me he kinda wants to see them. is that a sign he wants to do "it"(s-e-x) with me? i want to tell him don't do it too much but i'm scared i might hurt his feelings what should i do?

Answer 1

At least have the decency to wait until you GET HOME FROM THE MOVIE before you start whipping your top off!!!

If all you want is to get laid - then TELL HIM THAT!!!

And if NOT - then tell him to STOP... It's as easy as that!

JUST because he wants to feel you up does NOT mean that he can - YOU have to let him ;););)

Answer 2

For one YES this is a form of sex that is called 'foreplay.' This is usually a precursor to actual penetration. I am sure that your BF is aware of your being sexually aroused through this 'petting' either through your body language or verbally however you can always let him know in a polite way that it is not something that you care to engage in all the time. If he is understanding then he will be sensitive enough to grant your request.

Answer 3

first of all if he is really a friend (best) he would respect your body and not do that but you're probably young and wouldnt understand that. of course your breast are going to hurt if you're letting him play with them if dont want large breasts they're going to get big if you continue to let him fundle with them. you're too young from what i think to be letting this happen to your body. THATS NOT A BEST FRIEND HONEY thats somebody that wants to take advantage of you and if you do you messing up. if you're scared of hurting his feeling then you dont care about yourself cause thats your body and you have a say so not a best friend. if you decide to have sex make sure you use protection and double up if you have to. you dont want to end up with those ABC that you cant get rid of meaning HIV AIDS STD or a baby you're not ready to take care of. save your body cause if you mess up you gone wish you hadnt let him touch your breast all it takes is one time you're going to get that feeling your hormones going to start reacting and eventually his will and next thing you know you're laying up with somebody you barely probably dont know that well you just probably think you do cause he's your best friend. girlfriend you better listen a hard head makes a soft rootie tootie if you know what i mean but usually hard headed folks learn the hard way so good luck and take what i said and run with it. TELL HIM to answer your question

Answer 4

Ever heard of the word "respect"???
Do you want any from anyone like this guy who's got his hands all over you because you like him and don't want to hurt "his" feelings because you don't want him to "dump" you. What happens when what he's doing now gets to be boring to him and he wants something more.......hmmm, thought about that. So whatcha gonna do then give in to that too because your scared you might hurt "his feelings"????

You need to do something for yourself right now, you need to ask yourself this question........why's this person so important to you that you'll let him do things to do that your really not wanting to do but do anyway because of there feelings.
WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR FEELINGS IN ALL OF THIS?
You see what your doing here don't ya? Why is this person sooooooo important to you that you'll do this to yourself, because it kinda sounds to me like you really don't want to.

If you tell him to stop and he doesn't want to see you anymore then this ought to tell you something.........alls he wants from you is this and nothing else. NOW that's not your fault.......that's this kids fault that only wants to do this and nothing else, it's probably all he ever thinks about now a days anyways.
Have some respect for yourself and do what "you " want especially when its something like this......because believe it or not this is the base of which your going to start forming your relationships with guys, and trust me you don't want to think so bad about yourself and so concerned with others that you forget about "YOU" that you let guys treat you like sh*t.
Now I don't know how old you are, but probably young. I'm not. (and I really hate saying that). I'm not just saying this stuff to say it..........this is true. And ya, no what else is true, if he takes a walk on you and doesn't want any thing more to do with you.........you'll know were his heart "wasn't " won't ya. So why not if you can.........and you can, find this out now instead later..........Stop selling yourself and your whole life soooo short. Do you know how many years of living you have to do? Lots.........there's going to be tons of people all throughout your life. Tons, and your going to meet all kinds.........and some day that one will come your way. Don't be so quick to run and give up everything to the one's before you get to the "real" one your suppose to be with. Remember something, this is a journey, we all want to be with the "one" for us. Just like were trying to get to that right person that other person is also trying to get to there right person, and that takes a little time, even years. Don't be in such a rush.
And ya know what, because you wrote what you did, I think you already know what you should do and what's right. And that's something we don't talk alot about either, is that we sometimes already know what we should and shouldn't do but there are other things going on with us like self esteem issues.....insecurities that kind of stuff which sometimes if we aren't strong will let these things make us do things we shouldn't..........(been there done that). Listen to yourself you know yourself better than anyone in this world. When you do compromise yourself you eventually make those self esteem and insecurities issues worse.

Answer 5

I think its weird that he has this planned out in his mind to do those things with you, sounds to me that he is more interested in that stuff than in the romance part of it. And if it hurts, tell him they aren't toys! A lot of guys don't seem to get that at first, just tell him no, if he can't respect the fact that its not pleasurable for you and its in fact hurting, then maybe you shouldn't be with him.

Answer 6

You need to either:
1) Get a room or
2) Tell him to bugger off.

But don't do that in a cinema, it's just too sleazy and slutty.

Answer 7

IN A WAy yEAH IT IS A SIGN,BUT IF YOU WANA TELL HIM DON'T DO IT TO MUCH,TELL HIM,YOU KNOW HE SHOULD RESPECT YOU, AND hE SHOULD @ LEAST BE HAPPY HE'S GETTING TO DO THAT,BUT MAKE SHURE YOUR NOT TOO EASY,AND IF HE WANITS TO DO ''IT'' MAYBE IT WOULD BE BEST AT ANOTHER LOCATION...JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART...

Answer 8

Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. If your bf really cares he will want you to be comfortable and he should not pressure you into doing anything that you don't want to do!

Answer 9

tell him bcuz hes just gonna keep doing it and he might go futher till he gets what he wants

Answer 10

he wants sex alright.if you don't get the ground rules set now.he'll forever take advantage of you.if he pouts about it.then he don't really care about your feelings.he only wants sex.