There's a guy I visit a lot(he lives in another state) and we've been good friends since we were little. The problem: everytime he sees me he has this need to..like...touch me...Yeah, it's unwanted. I've tried subtle hints, like moving around the room, but it doesn't seem to work. I don't want to tell him to bug off because he's really sensitive and isn't trying to hurt me. Any ideas? I hate what's going on.
2007-12-01 04:48:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I'm not visiting him alone. I'm going with my family because we've been friends w/his family for a long time. It's not like I go visit him alone. And he's a good friend, he just doesn't know when to cool it. I don't want to break off the friendship, but thanks for the advice...
2007-12-01 06:11:36 · update #1
OK, I am not hiding anything! I don't go visit this guy alone!!! I don't have a romantic intrest for this guy. We're friends...Our families get together. He's a nice guy, I just want to tell him to back off.
2007-12-01 06:13:57 · update #2
There aren't any intentions! We're FRIENDS! I don't want to go any farther, and until lately, so did he. Why can't girls and guys just be friends??
2007-12-01 06:14:53 · update #3
Since he lives in another state, and YOU are taking the time to go visit him, he rightfully feels you have a strong interest in him. YOU are making the effort. He may think he owes you that sort of attention.
Speak up girl. Make it clear what your intentions are. Communication is the key here. You dont need to be verbally abusive.....merely honest.
.......OR stop going to see him so often.
2007-12-01 04:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that since you are friends you like that you can be comfortable around him and you would like him to act like friends. Just explain how you feel. Since you are friends....he should understand just make sure you aren not leading him on because then he will surely keep doing it because he is getting mixed signals.
2007-12-01 12:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to back off, if u don't like him touching u, then tell him and be sensitive about it
2007-12-01 12:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by wildride07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you go see him in another state if you don't like what he does?? Don't make any sense
2007-12-01 12:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by lost 1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you arent comfortable with the touching
2007-12-01 12:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth are you going to see him then...what arent you telling us..?
2007-12-01 12:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him i enjoy my personal space and it is uncomfortable when you constantly invade it.
2007-12-01 12:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by meri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meri is right, if you can't say it to his face, stop visiting him
2007-12-01 12:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋