I haven't seen him in two weeks almost, and when I finally did, he wasn't excited to see me. I'm making myself physically sick over this guy. Any advice?
2007-12-01 04:33:33 · 43 answers · asked by Behave 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-12-01 04:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by shezaan m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't say if you were in a relationship with him or not (I'm assuming that it's over now) or any of the circumstances behind this situation. It sounds like he doesn't appreciate you and I can guarantee that no-one is worth making yourself ill for.
Be kinder to yourself and tell yourself that you don't deserve to feel bad. Plan some treats, either just by yourself or with girl friends. Rent a good movie, cook your favourite meal, hit the shops, go and do an activity you enjoy: whatever works for you. Have a good cry when you feel like it, write down your feelings if that helps. Make sure you don't neglect your health: get enough sleep and eat healthily.
Gradually with time, you will start to think about him less and less and the hurt will decrease. Unfortunately you have to live through the difficult stage you're in at the moment but it WILL get better, I promise.
2007-12-01 04:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you're making yourself sick over it. One of my exes lived 20 miles away from me. I didn't have a car, and he got his license taken away. His sister wouldn't let me talk to him when she was home, and we couldn't talk between all of the homework and tests we had. It was hard because the new school year just started and I was having trouble because I was meeting new people. It was even harder when I would see all of my friends with their boyfriends and girlfriends. It made me miss him more and more. Every time I called him he didn't seem relieved that we finally had some time to talk. I didn't let it bother me too much after a while. Its hard in the beginning, but that's just the way most guys are. They don't care to show their feelings towards others because they are afraid it will make them look "UN-manly" or something like that. You will get over it after a month and soon realize that he isn't right for you if he makes you feel that way. Find someone that really cares the same about you that you do them.
2007-12-01 04:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by r0ckchick53 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't guess that really loves u or cares about u enough, he doesn't sound like a good boyfriend, now what u can do, is u need to try to talk about why he wasn't glad to see u, and u never know, he might have been glad to see u, but there was something wrong with him or something that went on when he was gone, if u have a heart, which i am sure u do, as a good girlfriend who cares about him (i can teel u do), then u need to get to the bottom of it.
2007-12-01 04:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by wildride07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get two pints of ice cream and some tissues. You're going to need them after you explain to Mr. Hoo-Haa that he's breaking your heart. But maybe you should look at this situation as a new beginning.
Oh, and quit making yourself sick over some emo-hobo. Take two tylenol and get some rest. Sleeping on a situation is a good solution to anything, except bladder problems.
2007-12-01 04:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he seems to be over you and I don't think that he is going to come back to you. I would say just try and get over him. Crying helps a lot. I never do cry but I'm always told to cry when you feel bad and cry your eyes out let it all go. It would be just as easy to find another guy to put your mind on. The best you can do though is just get over him.
2007-12-01 04:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kristyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel I've been thru it but maybe you should just talk to other guys be with yout friedns and have fun and if he comes back around act like you don't care,let him make the first moves @ all times!make shure you don't get stuck on guys!hope this advice of mine helps!
2007-12-01 04:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because he does not look excited does not mean he was not, i think you may be over reacting.
i say you should talk to him, as if things are not working out, you will be able to move on, by leaving this boy.
you may be mistaken or may have past the wrong judgment. i suggest that you find out before you seriously harm yourself( body and mind.)
making yourself sick is no solution and stressing is not healthy either.
good luck
2007-12-01 04:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sally J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that your going through this but you need to give yourself time to heal and then move on. It's not going to be easy but in the end it'll make you stronger and you'll have a better relationship the next time around.
2007-12-01 04:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
check this out sweetie either the guy don't wanna be wit u any more n found a new girl or just gay this what u should do girls got the power so go out find a new person to kick it wit n take ur mind off ur guy move around meet people don't be stuck on one guy most of them are dogs
2007-12-01 04:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mike T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a "dew-fuss"; at some point in his life, he learned
it was OK to treat people like they are worthless -- I know
some people like that. My advice, go to a shrink if you have
to but get him out of your mind. Try to figure out how you
can find someone new! Good luck - maybe I will try to follow
my own advice.
2007-12-01 04:40:03 · answer #11 · answered by judy f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋