the thing is I know we both want sex really bad but I think for some reason he is being shy and so am I.. I was going to text him something to let him know that I want sex.. I think he is feeling insecure possibly thinking I don't want it.. Either way someone has to intiate it!!!
2007-12-01 01:19:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go for it. he sure isn't going to be mad that he had sex =)
2007-12-01 01:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by Monkey 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing that turns my man on more than for me to take the initiative.... which I do regularly. I might send him a sexy email during the day letting him know that when I get home, he might as well be naked.... or I'll come in the door (he gets home an hour before I do) start kissing him and start taking his clothes off... or if he's sitting at his computer, I'll walk up behind him and whisper in his ear, "Can I kiss it?" He knows what I'm wanting to kiss and he's never turned me down! lol I find being playful with it can remove some of the tension. Just be careful and understand the difference between playfulness/flirting and humor... Sometimes it can come off like you are joking and you may not be taken seriously. For example the kiss it thing can come off as a joke (he won't know you mean it) if you said from across the room while you are doing dishes or something... lol
2007-12-01 09:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The stereotype of guys being 'plug and play' is exactly that. A stereotype. One a lot of guys and girls buy into, unfortunately. He might be feeling inadequate, and unsexy right now, he might feel pressured and inadequate if you push him for sex when he doesn't feel like it. Ego and self esteem have a big effect on male plumbing, which just makes them feel worse, or afraid and embarassed about not being able to get it up.
Take your time, rent a movie he likes, eat popcorn, don't dress sexy. Then offer him a back rub. Guys need to be seduced slowly sometimes. No pressure, no expectations.
Oh, yeah, no booze.
2007-12-01 09:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by alyacatmom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Without fail a horny woman is such a turn on. One of the best ways to get me, personally in the mood would be; greet me in the room wearing a sexy little outfit taking control. Let him know you want it, how you want it, and take what you want. Any man in his right mind wouldn't turn down sex, especially from his woman.
2007-12-01 09:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you say "we haven't had sex in so long" then it is surprising that you have problems initiating it. If you been this close in the past, it shouldn't be a problem. When he looks tired, propose a back massage and slowly extend your massaging hands to juicier parts of your mate!
2007-12-01 09:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Whisperer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't tell him, you show him... start with a kiss, not a normal kiss, a long passionate kiss, but don't stop there, and don't let him stop you or talk, use your hands, your entire body, and also get his hands and put then where you want him to touch you, be bold and he won't be able to stop.
2007-12-01 09:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lulu 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be straight forward. don't text it, tell him, either face to face or over the phone. He probably is waiting for you to make the move. So go for it!
2007-12-01 09:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by SimpleMo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't text him. Someone else might see it and you coudl embarrass him. Just talk to him face to face. If you can't do that (be honest and communicate), maybe you shouldn't really be there.
2007-12-01 09:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask for it. It is your right and I think there is nothing to be shy about. If he is not making the move, you start it.
2007-12-01 09:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just jump his bones. I doubt he will object.
OR!!! wait for him to come over and be there dressed in nothing but a nice tie... It worked for Julia Robberts in Pretty Woman.
Good luck gurl getting your grove on!!!
hahaha
2007-12-01 11:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yea it's usually the guy 'nagging' for it - but what happens when the guy doesn't nag lmfao.
just text him: "I'm horny ><"
and he'll text you back, and then send one "I wanna fck you, lmao"
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I'm curious as to see how it plays out, because I'm not one of those guys who nags I never actually mention it at all.
2007-12-01 09:26:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋