2007-12-01 01:01:10 · 9 answers · asked by mnug13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You sound like you are on the right track. I suggest you do some research into why parents give their children rules to live by. I know that from your point of view most of these rules are pure anarchy, but trust me they are not. Your parents, and every other parent in the world have already been through what you are going through and what ever you will go through, they have made their mistakes and will continue to make mistakes, since they are only human. Generally speaking though, they have come to understand a lot more about life and what you will need to be successful and happy in your life. The rules are there to set boundarys to protect you from a miriad of situations which could compromise their passionate desire for you to be a responsible, happy and relatively successfull adult. Having rules is EXTREMELY important to teaching responsibility and accountability. This includes acknowledging that you failed to comply to the rules and are ready to face the consequences, excuses are irrelavent and usually only serve to prove your parents veiw that you do not understand what it means to be responsible. Having said that, there are legitimet REASONS why you were unable to comply, such as accidents, breakdowns, weather etc. The world is a huge, cruel place and you NEED to have everything going for you in order for you to survive. Keep in mind that your parents, being only human, will not be there forever. Take the time, however hard it is for you, to learn EVERYTHING you possibly can from them, trust their judgement. You need to understand completely that your parents are your best freinds for life, literally. Lastly, do some research on appologies. An appology that is forced out of you, is not an appology at all, a true appology comes from the depth of your soul and carries with it your unspoken commitment to do you absolute best to ensure the situation NEVER arises again, and then you take possitive action to make things right, totally at your own expense of time, money and what ever else it takes. Good luck to you!!!
2007-12-01 02:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break curfew? What were you doing?
You knew it was wrong, so why did you do it?
How do you think this made your parent feel?
Mad because of the disrespect?
Worried that you were dead somewhere?
Sad because you didn't think enough of them to call?
That they didn't do a good job raising you?
Answer these question, and more like it and I am sure that you can write a letter from your heart.
2007-12-01 11:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by fruitie7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That's an interesting way for your Dad to handle the situation. I think he just wants proof that you have reflected on everything this means. For example, talk about how it affects his ability to believe and trust you. Talk about how it implies disrespect for him. Talk about the reasons he put the curfew in place.
That should get you started. Hope you don't go down this road again. 4 pages will be difficult.
2007-12-01 01:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 11:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a lot about the past relationship lol i dont know the details but if hes a good father something like this
"dear dad, sorry to have broken yopur rules. you have alawasy tried to raies me into a good man with your guidance. jus tlike back when i was a little kid and you,,,..." then finish off wth something like
"ive learned my lesson dad thanks for teaching me how to be a responhbile young man"
2007-12-01 01:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you stayed out. how long, what you did and also how you are sorry.
bascially that. give facts to show him what you were doing. andinclude thigns about how good you were or didn't do this because you knew he's be upset.
hope this helps :)
2007-12-01 01:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for you to learn this lesson you should do this yourself. This is supposed to be something from your heart, what you learned about making the mistake you did and how you will avoid doing it again. Don't deny yourself the opportunity to be genuine.
2007-12-01 01:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Explain how sorry you are and how you love and appreciate him caring for you.
STAYING out too late can be dangerous, so his heart is in the right place.
2007-12-01 01:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-01 01:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋