ok im a 16 year old girl....i used to think i had everything- or everything to make me happy...i was so satisfied wit life....im reaallly smart (but not geeky or dorky), im very athletic, im funny, aand i thought i was sort of pretty. i have chocolate brown eyes and long brown hair. my friends always say they love my hair when i straighten it and wear it down- they say it looks so pretty....i dont wear any makeup cuz ...idk why? i just dont have time or care really...and after seeing some ppl load on so much its just gross....so i dont think im that ugly or anything,.....but ive never been asked on a date, or kissed a guy or anything...like i said im a junior....the only dance i ever went to at my school was turnaout freshman yr (cuz the girls asked the guys!) my date was niec, but we were just kinda friends....ive never been asked to a dance sinec.....but im not a complete loser...i know im not.....but then why do i not get included to dances?! why dont guys take any interst in me
2007-11-30 16:44:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get to know them first. Talk to and be friends with guys. Eventually at least one will see you for the wonderful person you are and see you as something he would like as more than just a friend.
2007-11-30 17:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 yr old boys are only interested in playboy models. The girls that get asked out in high school are the ones that look or act like that. Boys give other boys a hard time when they date girls that don't fit that image. They are also very competitive. So if one boy in the group has a 'hot' girlfriend, it wouldn't be cool for another boy in the same group to ask out a girl that was less 'hot'. 'Sort of pretty' is pretty enough for the right guy though, (beauty is in the eye of the beholder)the kind that appreciates the real you and not a facade. Dating isn't important if your not looking to get married right out of high school. Focus on you're studies and tell you're friends you don't care about dating right now. They wont care much if you sound like you mean it. You might just be bord or maybe you don't have anyone you really connect with and can talk to about important life issues you're dealing with. Talk to your mom or someone you can trust. Save dating for when you know who you are, and what you want out of life. You can't choose a good life partner if you don't know what you need in one.
2007-12-01 01:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by SpaceGirl009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mature adult, I don't think being asked out has a lot to do with how you look. The important thing is personality. Are your friendly and out going. Do you have a lot of friends, both male and female? Are you uptight around others and do you like yourself. Quite often that is reflected in how we behave. I would not worry at this time about a date or being kissed, just be a nice person and be courteous and pleasant to others. You will gain friends and the time will come for the guys who are really interested in a nice person-not just a beauty to look at.
2007-12-01 01:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what others think? You are you and be yourself. Your not benefitting yourself any by looking for someone. The person that truely cares for you doesnt care if you are a loser or a winner, or if you fit in. You pick someone, they are most likley to stab you in the back most of the time. Trust me, the best friends that I have came to me. I didnt come to them. And now their my life. Dude, be yourself. Your not a loser. The only way that you would be a loser, is if you try too hard. You will become self consious. Trust me, i see this a lot in my school, although i am in middle. Btw, losers rock. So screw what the world thinks.
2007-12-01 00:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by love one another 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever consider making the first move. Guys are just as shy as girls are, so if you are eager to go on a date or to your dances, then why not ask someone you like. If you have a fear of rejection, its normal. That's everyones fear of ever making the first move but also a big part of life. Think about it.
2007-12-01 00:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you completely unflirtatious?
that would be the only reason i could think of....
i have two girl friends who feel this way and i think it's cuz they get down on themseleves and just dont hold enough self-esteem even though id date both of them.
if u actually talk to guys alot and flirt with them(but not slutty)
maybe put a bit of makeup on to accentuate your finer features than im sure some guy will like you i mean its bound to happen
GL chica
2007-12-01 00:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by hoffster12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to the guys giving stupid comments. if your shy, ya they probably won't ask you. i know my first g/f was the farthest thing from shy but once she got into h/s she really quieted down or so im told lol. just slowly develope a friendship with a guy and take it from there. thats wat i tell the girls that ask me
2007-12-01 01:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to them more or make yourself more available... im very out there and i dont consider myself pretty and theyre always about me lol :)
2007-12-01 00:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to you:
If you are not invited to a dance you are: A loser?
Um..
2007-12-01 00:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are afraid of rejection and they think you are better than them try to find someone and talk to him alot and get a little close
2007-12-01 00:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by Brown Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋