I dont understand this my boy friend says this to me when he is very angry and I feel very bad regarding this .
2007-11-30 16:33:06 · 17 answers · asked by Hope Summer 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aw, you women are all alike, moaning about us men!
All women are NOT the same, silly!
Not very experienced guys say that and it's simply not true. Are all guys the same?
I think not.
It takes wisdom to handle situations not learned in only 20 or 30 years on the planet! Don't you think?
Besides, things said in anger don't really count as much!
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2007-11-30 16:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I've heard it before, especially from my own bf in the very beginning of the relationship, I think it happens mostly to guys who had a bad relationship or two in the past and just use it as an excuse when something good comes along. It just takes patience and understanding from your side to make them see not ALL girls or women are like the ones before you.
If they don't see it in a couple weeks or months don't waste you time trying to convince them, just move on and find the one right for you.
2007-12-01 00:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and I've never said that, or thought it.
If all girls were the same, we would just go out with anyone at all who was willing to go out with us, which I guess a lot of guys do actually do, but certainly not all of us.
I certainly have turned down multiple dating requests over the years, and broken up with other women when it turned out that we weren't that compatible after all.
Girls aren't all the same, any more than guys are all the same. Any guy who suggests that they are all the same is delusional at best, and downright mean-spirited at worst, and at some point soon may need to be replaced.
Sorry that you had that experience, and best of luck to you.
--jonathan e.
2007-12-01 11:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls also say the same about guys. Some people, when angry, generalise to justify their feelings.
2007-12-01 00:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard that before. You really can't feel bad about it though, because girls say the same thing aobut guys.
2007-12-01 00:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please ignore the first sentence from the knuckle-dragger freesumpin', above.
Honey, I've heard similar statements from women about men.
"Men, they are all alike"
You are right, this statement is used by someone when they are either angry or disappointed with the opposite sex.
So, it is not to be taken to heart, you rarely hear such a statement from a person when he is happy.
Just work together to be happy.
2007-12-01 00:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
All GIRLS are the same? All PEOPLE are the same. I like how people dwell on the minute differences. We're all the same. No matter how different you may think you are, you're just another person.
2007-12-01 00:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so,,,,,, not all girls are same, some are bad some are nice some are very nice. it depend upon the nature of behavior , & it varies in person to person.
2007-12-01 23:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, the guys never uttered that to me before but they just left me for another women coz they love women who could be their constant companion inside their hotel rooms. That's just it!
2007-12-03 04:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Maganda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe his ex gf was kind of same just like u?
try to talk it out and sort with him
this will make ur relationship better
ok
don't worry
2007-12-01 01:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by cute gal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋