2007-11-30 16:01:11 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
exactly that! he is not yet ready to face or talk to you. maybe he is so affected by the break up that he needs time to come to terms with what happened.men are also hurt. they are also people and they have emotions. maybe he has to overcome the pain yet before he can talk to you normally.
2007-11-30 16:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can mean several things. Some people use this as a way to escape explaining the breakup - usually because there really is not a good reason and they don't have what it takes to be completely honest. Some will say this when they are having difficulties sorting out the whys and wherefores of the breakup and they don't want to hurt you or they don't wish to be hurt by you. I thing the majority say this because they still have deep feelings and are simply not ready to face the unresolved ones. Just like us - guys feel sadness, loneliness and misgivings after a breakup. Regardless of who's breaking up with who (or whom - I can never keep that straight! LOL) After a relationship is over we experience a loss. So, whatever the reason, let it go and let him go, in the long run it will be the best thing for the both of you. If - in the future you run into each other and decide to have a cup of coffee or lunch or whatever - that's the time to say anything that needs to be said. You may both find out that there really is not anything left to say. Well - My best to you both and I will say a prayer that you both find happiness very soon.
God bless
fishergirl
2007-11-30 16:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by fishergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means just that, he does not want to talk with you. I do not know how old you are. I don't know what brought on the breakup but it is obvious that he is done. You have to realize in relationships the more someone talks and, the more someone listen, either one or the other ends up forgiving or feeling sorry for the other and they end of back together. This is usually only temporary because something is missing or wrong in the relationship. My suggestion is leave him alone. Do not call him or try to see him. Take this time and reflect on yourself. Think about your role in the relationship. Ask yourself, did you give to much of yourself or too little? Think about his behavior were there signs, that you just ignored. Just take this time for your personal growth and development. You might look back one day and say ."this guy was not for me after all". Good luck and stay strong.
2007-11-30 16:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by ADRIENNE S G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he is not ready to talk to you after a breakup. Really.
2007-11-30 16:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It means he hasn't settled into the new reality yet, and talking with you will make it more difficult for him to sort things out. If you still care, give him that space. If you don't, then just let him go. If you want him left dangling, doesn't sound like he's up for that. Sounds like you should let him do the calling when and if he's ready for it.
2007-11-30 16:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by casemon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space and don't force him to talk. If he wants to talk later he will come to you. If you don't give him time you will even push him alway more. If you really care just be there for him as a friend now. Trust in your heart that the right thing will happen..
2007-11-30 16:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by CRAZYMOM1966 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he needs time to think things over and is hurt about the break up. My guess is that u broke up with him. He is most likely REALLY embarrassed about that and is angry with u. Just give it sometime and I'm sure it will get better. If it doesn't then he isn't worth getting upset over and u should just move on.
2007-11-30 16:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like wen ur in a relationship but need space from da person. After something happens, ppl usually need time 2 think
2007-11-30 16:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by Kia Yamato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply, he's not ready to talk to u after the breakup...
u need to give him time and space... he's either deeply hurt, trying to get over, or feels that he needs to be away from u to stay healthy (his mood, his heart, his attitude.. etc)
2007-11-30 16:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like going to the refridgerator and taking a drink of milk and finding it sour. Then you put it back in the fridge and try it again next week.
Move on!
2007-11-30 16:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by RomeoMike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋