ok well my bestfriend named chuck is a serious player, always trying to hook up with some1 new hes also liked the richest and good looking guy in school and is constantly an asshole to every1 but me, however he just started dating my best friend thats a girl who ive known for like a year who has been completely smitten with him since the day shes seen him and they have been going out for about a month, yesterday he told me that hes just trying to get in her pants and hes gonna have sex with her this weekend and the second after hes gonna break up with her. What should i do? tell her?
2007-11-30 15:45:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes please tell her and save her the heartache he is not a very good person and you will be by telling her
2007-11-30 15:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by melinda k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should first talk to your friend and let him know she's a good friend of yours and he needs to treat her with some respect if he has any respect for you. If he doesn't care, then he isn't your friend after all. And then you won't have to worry about being a trader to him by letting her know what's up. If you do decide to tell her, don't be dramatic or pushy. Just tell her you'd like to talk to her about something important and in private let her know the plans. If she's a smart girl she'll know what to do. You can't control either of them, it's their decision and you just have to be the good friend you are and try. BTW... if you warn her and it happens anyway, don't say I told you so. Just be there for support. Good luck buddy.
2007-11-30 15:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by myluv115 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was only trying to get in your good graces because he knows you are her best friend. If you know what he is up to, then, I'd warn her. Maybe leave her an anonymous note in her locker. So that there is no way to trace it back to you. If she takes the advice given to her and she dumps the jerk, then that is a good thing.
If she doesn't and keeps him, then it is on her. At least you gave her fair warning. -Good luck.
2007-11-30 16:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely tell her...Put her in your shoes...Would YOU want to be told? Plus, isn't there a type of bound between girls that they should always look out for each other? =)
2007-11-30 15:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by mAdDi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me i told her and we were married 25 years
2007-11-30 15:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by Grand pa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell her. She has a right to know. If after she knows she still wants to go with him, atleast she's prepared that he will hurt her.
2007-11-30 15:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should tell her, it's gonna hurt her horribly if she sleeps with him and he dumps her. She's gonna feel used, you shouldn' t play with people like that.
2007-11-30 15:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by DorisDay 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her anything. She is intelligent and will figure him out soon.
2007-11-30 15:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋