I know that I have already had sex before and have been preg and all of that. But after u have sex i felt ocward becaus we were naked in a bed and looking at eachother is this norml to feel weird after sex?
2007-11-30 12:39:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you having sex? It is recommended that people have sex with they are ready. When you are ready, you can have sex with the lights on and you are not embarrassed to have someone looking at you or your body. It sounds like you aren't ready to be having sex with whoever you're having sex with
2007-11-30 12:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some times the inhibitions you feel before turns into awkwardness after. That's pretty common especially for females. Don't worry about that. Relax and enjoy the afterglow. He is probably wanting to check you out since you made him feel so good, so if he's looking over your body, relax and let him. He likes what he sees. Most men do that. Nothing wrong with it. It's just the two of you, not like you're on camera or anything. It's all a part of intimacy.
2007-11-30 12:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only if it was secretive and not supposed to happen. It might have felt weird because you were guilty of doing it without consent or permission. Also, if you were not close enough to your partner you could still be getting over the fact that you are both naked and that can be awkward. Why are you asking this now though? Isn't that way into your past?
Hope this Helps
2007-11-30 12:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Hoops Hero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
weird?? have you only known the guy for 10 mins?
a discomfort feeling would be a in-security issue.
next time you feel that way when you are laying there try talking about it with him.
Maybe mentally your just looking for acceptance and wanting to know or hear him say your fine the way you are and that he does not see anything wrong with your body.
It might make you feel better.
PS: if he says there is something wrong dump him! =)
2007-11-30 12:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by n00b420@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel this way, because you feel just did something that is supposed to be with the one you want to be with. There is a difference between sex and love. You feel that way after sex, You don't after making love. Your with the wrong guy or it was way to early.
2007-11-30 12:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Michael S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
After these kinds of intimate moments...one often feels the discomfort and uneaziness...It is normal to feel these emotions but one must make sure their partner is knowing and can acknowledge the situation.
in other words, tell ur man u feel like this...and he'll tell you how dam hot you are and you dont have to wrry anymore.
2007-11-30 12:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Namrata K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your young, yes. You grow out of it and you enjoy being around that person. Here is some advice; Never let him see you use the bathroom. I hate this and I don't like thinking about those things and it turns me off, BIG TIME!!!
2007-11-30 12:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by wind champ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You had sex, you had a pregnancy, and all of that, but after sex you decided to feel awkward about being naked? That's sort of like waiting until you're grown to become afraid of the dark, isn't it?
2007-11-30 12:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Guilt may be the correct word for it. If you were having sex with someone that maybe you shouldn't there may be a little guilt afterwards. Then, yes, that would be normal.
2007-11-30 12:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by Poopsie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, only the first few times. Then again, girls are better looking naked than guys--this could be why!
2007-11-30 12:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋