hi I just met this girl and I sooo want her sooo bad. She is the cutest thing I ever have seen and we have almost gone all the way except she always asks me if I am still a virgin like her blah blah. she says she wants to do it with another virgin. I think that is a real stupid thing so I am thinking about just telling her I am a virgin even though I am not so I can sleep with her. is this an ok thing to do?
2007-11-30 12:01:53 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not! That is the rudest thing that you can do and I am shocked that you are even thinking about betraying her like this. Relationships are based on trust and if you care for her you will be honest with her. If she is in love with you and wants to have relations with you then she will based on that and not on if you are a virgin or not.
2007-11-30 12:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by kana121569 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, coming from a girl that just wouldn't be right. maybe she wants to lose it to a virgin because she knows she is unexperienced and doesn't want to feel embarassed if she messed up or w/e. not to mention if you were to ever get into a serious relationship you wouldn't want to go in it based on a lie. Lieing is a sin and although we all do it, that just doesn't make it right. If you lie to her it might just come back on you, or she might just find out on her own the truth. Be honest with her, and maybe she'll change her mind. Girls want good honest guys..not the same ol' lieing heartbreakers.
2007-11-30 12:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by dj's mommy ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to give herself to another virgin - it's her body and her choice. How dare you lie about it just to get her! Tell her you are not a virgin but you would really like to sleep with her later after she has given herself to a virgin - and leave it at that. Dude - you're selfish! I can't believe you are "asking permission" to do something that heinous - you know it's wrong. How can any woman ever trust a cad like you? It does not matter how bad you want her - you did not stay with your first girl and you are not going to stay with her either. She gets one shot at giving someone her virginity and you want to steal it? Disgusting.
2007-11-30 12:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by Amy R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Master G.
I don't see the problem. After reading your question, I can see you are able to tell her you are a virgin without being dishonest. You cannot lose your virginity unless the sex you had involved you and at least one other person (magazine centerfolds don't count).
Go forth and multiply.
Regards,
Lenny.
2007-11-30 12:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I defer to the Golden Rule. Do unto others as would have them do unto you. What comes first, the lie, or the lay? If you lie, you will have karmic recompense to deal with. I think you should marry her first, either way. Marriage is one of the pillars of civilization. And honesty is the best policy.
2007-11-30 12:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Robert W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow
sounds like u wanna sleep wit her and bounce!!
"I am thinking about just telling her I am a virgin even though I am not so I can sleep with her"
Dont do that tell her the truth and tell her that u want 2 do it wit her. datz all. lay down watz really gud between ya 1
2007-11-30 12:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Marlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she finds out, especially after you have sex, she could get extremelly pissed. I would recommend trying to find out why she wants to do it with another virgin so badly.. it might be that she just wants the experience levels to be the same. If so, you're going to need to comfort her that it doesnt matter...
I would imagine if you were really having sex with alot of girls she wouldnt need to ask the question, so you couldn't be too far ahead of her experience wise...
2007-11-30 12:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must be a very selfish child to do some thing like that or you are desperate why cant you just be honest it really goes a long way this is not an okay thing to do and remember YOU think her idea is stupid and i think your idea is stupid
2007-11-30 12:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by rannbabyduck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Lying isn't a good way to start anything.
Don't be stupid about birth control--if it progresses to sex, USE A CONDOM. Even the first time with anyone can result in a baby.
2007-11-30 12:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, don't lie. don't start a relationship that way. If she really likes you, she will understand that the past is just that - the past. She will respect you more for telling the truth.
2007-11-30 12:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Peanut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋