im ready to have sex with my boyfriend and i have necer done it before. i am 19 years old. what are some good ways to have passionate sex? i need some serious answers plz? tips r appreciated as well.
2007-11-30 11:47:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first, just have a little patience. Its your first time being intamite with someone, and even tho things can be great with you and your partner any other time, it sometimes takes a little time getting completely comfortable with them. the more comfortable you are, the less you will worry about if your doing something right. and not every time is always full of passion like books or movies might make people believe. sometimes it can be slow and sweet, just connecting to the person, sometimes something funny might happen, like accidently roll of the bed if your two aren't paying attention. and sometimes it can be totally raw and so full of passion you never thought you had in you. bottom line its a learning experience, for both, even if they've done it before. everyones is a little different on the things they like, and its something you both just need to figure together. no, dont sit down and ask or tell what you do and dont like. be encuraging when the"mood" strikes. if hes doing something you like, by all means let him know how much you like it! if it seems like hes straying a little, ease him back to what was working. but dont ever make him feel like he is doing something wrong! you both want to be positive in every way. and the same goes for you too. pay attention to the things you do and his reaction. if he seems like hes enjoying it, then keep up the good work! and you can always do a general web search, not for porn, but you can find some articles giving some insight on things that can make your guy banannas for, and things for you too!
2007-11-30 12:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing to remember make it special,dont have a quick fumble take your time relax,make sure you cant be desturbed because no doubt you will already be nervous,dont ruin your first time by being tipsy make it special,i stupidly rushed my girlfriends first time i should of made it special,you look back over the years i realise what i could of done better.take your time with foreplay that is very important make sure your boyfriend concentrates on your clitoris making sure your aroused before attempting sex,sex is great i would have it everyday if my wife would let me ha,you will gradually learn more and more ways of turning you both on with different positions when you feel comfortable,just relax use a condom,and most important of all dont be pressured into anything you dont want to do,enjoy.
2007-11-30 20:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for you to enjoy sex, you must have to make up your mind because is your first time.
there is no big deal in loosing a virginity, it one bridge we all have to cross some day. it is a very sweet experience. so if you want to enjoy sex, let your boyfriend touch you, tell him to go slowly, by kissing slow and touching slowly, untill u know you wet and is begin him to go in''. and pls remember to erase your mind off any fear or belief that might change your mind in this life time experience. just relax and enjoy the ride ok?
2007-11-30 19:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Passion comes from within. No one can tell you how to manufacture that with anyone. You either feel it, have it, or you don't. When the time comes you'll feel it, if he's someone you want and care about. Then you wont need to ask anyone about it. Trust, you'll see. ;-)
2007-11-30 19:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you should stay protected, the first time is passionate enough so there is not much you need to plan, it should be organic, just go with the flow so you can learn what you like, than you can go from there. good luck and stay safe. :)
2007-11-30 19:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by flipfairyflop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the bookstore and buy books on sex. This is a very personal question.
2007-11-30 19:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex in a bed :) and take things slowly, hopefully your boyfriend says he loves you while your doing it
2007-11-30 19:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you have plenty of time with no disturbances ---- take lots of time for foreplay ----- use a condom --- and do what feels good to you --- dont be afraid to tell your lover what you want and dont want --- enjoy
2007-11-30 19:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares, its going to be the worst moment sexually ever for you, dont tell me you think its going to feel great?
youll probably end up crying
2007-11-30 19:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ajaxnl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just stay relaxed and enjoy the moment.
2007-11-30 19:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by Res T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋