I'm new to having sex, pretty new. I've done it a few times with my boyfriend. He wasn't a virgin when we started dating, so he's more expierienced.. but he said that i'm weird and i don't do what normal girls do. I don't moan or anything. I mean sometimes it feels good. but a lot of the time i can hardly feel anything.. am i doing something wrong? i don't understand.
2007-11-30 11:10:07 · 10 answers · asked by S H e L xo. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he's doing something wrong. You shouldn't have to force a moan or fake your facial expressions.
Have you masturbated before?
If you haven't, you should, lol. It's best to know how to touch your body so that you can tell him what you do like and what you don't like.
What you can also do is try being on top and moving in different ways. This way, you can control the movement and see what things you do/don't like. You can ride normally, or try it "reverse cowgirl" as well, which is the same thing, but facing his feet instead of his face.
2007-11-30 11:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by MarieYoungLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you are not doing anything wrong ---- if you dont feel anything then there is only your boyfriend to blame --- he is not really trying to please you --- just because he has had sex more time than you does not make him experienced --- its about doing all you can to please your partner --- generally its not a race to see who finishes first --- its a journey to experience as much pleasure as you can for as long as you can --- and does not start and finish in the bedroom --- it starts hours or days before and continues as long as you are together --- if he is not caring enough to figure that out he needs to be straightened out and quickly before he believes he is some great lover ---- best wishes and enjoy
2007-11-30 19:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your man wasn't pleasing you the right way, so you didn't feel anything from it. Sex is supposedly enjoyable for both people. Maybe you should tell him to change positions or maybe go faster.
2007-11-30 19:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is him. If you're not feeling any thing then he's just not doing it right.
2007-11-30 19:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by sddq_nn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking next time you need to tell him something like "I can't feel anything!" and he'll fix the problem.
It's him, not you.
2007-11-30 19:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by Kodi [[RoX uR sOx]] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal, but doesnt sound like hes too good in bed.
2007-11-30 19:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by eric l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't feel anything, the problem isn't you, the problem is him.
2007-11-30 19:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your bf is not doing something right. He does not know how to please you. dont worry yourself you will know what its like soon
2007-11-30 19:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO!! Girl no, he is not doing his job. If he was you would SHOUT!!!!
2007-11-30 19:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..yep... sex it's hard ans stiff ....
2007-11-30 19:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋