I had a dream that my crush was gay... What does that mean?

Question

The question^^ basically explains it.
But a while ago I had this dream that the guy I had a crush on was guy, like he had his arms wrapped around another guy and everything. I fell and he said that I should be more carefully... But does anyone know what this might mean?
Because I keep hearing that dreams are your brains way of thinking things out so...

Answer 1

that his gay

Answer 2

Adler's theory is that dreams are ways of straightening things out. However, Adler is fading into oblivion. Any depth psychology that ignores sexuality should be suspected of being political and inoffensive rather than clear-headed. Alfred Adler is the father of pop psychology. He was the original Dear Abby.

Freud's theory is that dreams are disguised fulfillment of suppressed wishes. This theory is still going strong. Freud's "Interpretation of Dreams" is still required reading for psychiatry residents all over the world.

So, I would say off the top of my head that your dream means you have an unconscious crush on some girl that resembles the guy you love. You know, homosexual men are often perceived as women trapped in a man's body. In other words, your dream is a *disguised* fulfillmnent of a *repressed* wish.

Answer 3

I had a dream that my crush said he was into another guy... But yet again in real life he doesn t have a gf or like anyone. So I don t know...

Answer 4

3 options to choose from

1. You feel that whatever he is looking for in a partner, you are unable to provide that for him. the biggest, clearest example of this fear is that he's not even into your gender, because save for extensive surgery you'd never be 'his type'.

2. You've picked up on some clues that are setting off your subconsious gay-dar.

3. You're trying to make yourself feel better about his not returning your feelings, i.e. he doesn't like you, he must be gay, (the fabled Sour Grapes, track down the fable, you'll understand the true meaning of the phrase.)

Answer 5

This dream tells you that the person you are interesting in, but you have doubt about him of his gender, because the way he reacts to other guys. Also this tell yourseft of not so confident in yoursefl how to show your openess. Understand yoursefl first before try to understand others.

Answer 6

Maybe you feel that it doesn't matter what you are, who you are, he is out of your reach/league. So if he were gay, would you still have a crush on him? It happens. You falling? Maybe you feel that you do try to be more careful of who you are around him and can't really be yourself. So by him telling you to be more careful is your worry that he thinks you need to be "cool"er. No? Am I wrong?

Answer 7

It means absolutely nothing. Stop eating weird stuff before you go to sleep, and your crush isn't gay because you dream it.

Answer 8

hmmmm....i think that this means that you trust this guy alot because usually girls get very close with ### guys.

good luck!

PS. Dont give up on him as a crush because of this dream.....we could all be interpreting it the wrong way!

Answer 9

stop putting so much stock in your dreams. Thats like college students tripping out on shrooms and basing their life philosophy on what they see.

If you're dreaming about the guy, then it means you like him. HE wasn't making your little avatar of him swap spit with the boy toy. so HE is not to blame.

Cheers!

Answer 10

ha i once had a dream that my crush was gay too. i think it means nothing at all because that guy has a gf now..

Answer 11

Maybe to think of him more as a friend than just a crush !

(arms around someone else )