I am good looking. I have a great job. I am funny. people love me!! Problem is, for some reason I cant get a date to save my life!! I dont go to bars very often and my city isnt really the best of cities for things to do......HELP!!!!!
2007-11-30 10:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by M76 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want try church...or going some place that interests you and look for a woman with your same interests. I know the old saying is "not to look for love that love will find you" but I dont believe that! How are you going to find love if you dont look for it! So get out there and be outgoing! Be bold and confident( major turn on) and ask for her number or if she'd like to meet you for lunch! And if a lot of attractions are not available in your city try a walk in the park or a small cafe. Being romantic doesnt have to cost a thing!
2007-11-30 11:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you must live in Portland Oregon. I had the same problem, for some wierd reason mostly all the Women I approached were A) Married B) engaged C) would be really cool and would give me their number and would never ever pick up D) give me the rejection number E) Give me the how dare you speak to me while I am with my girlfriends at a restaruant/bar! etc Did I mention married or engaged? Portland sucks to meet chix. Period. The only way I have a gf now is because this woman at my work sucked my d**k and now we have been together for 7 months or so she is really cool but not the ideal girl (body wise) she just found me and presto I am in a relationship now. Let her find you?? Sorry for the bad advice bro, good luck.
2007-11-30 11:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should look at other places to meet women, try church or at the city park, or even at the grocery store. Try to go to places that really interest you so that when and if you see someone that you may be interested in, she'll at least have similar interest with you. Don't try too hard, if it was meant to be, it will happen. =P Good Luck!
2007-11-30 11:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by surfagirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.....that time will come. There are many many decent girls out there. There is a girl out there for you and you will surely find her. Have faith. It also helps if you don't *look* for her, and become engrossed in your own life and growth. Keep living your life, keep meeting new people, develop new friendships, keep self-improving in areas, keep building new hobbies......, keep learning and growing, work hard, have great relations with ur family, visit old friends.....live a well-rounded life that makes you happy and fulfills you from within. And along that path, you are sure to find her.
2007-11-30 11:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try going to a church and seeing if you could meet someone there. I had a friend that meet her husband at the laundry mat. There are other places to meet ladies besides at the bar. Good luck.
2007-11-30 10:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by carol p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should look hardder
2007-11-30 10:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋