2007-11-30 10:49:22 · 28 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
0. It depends if you just want a poking for the night, if so, no date required just get your coat. Otherwise wait a little while, the more value you place on the new potential lover the longer the wait. Perhaps 3rd/4th date if its worth its salt.
2007-11-30 11:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by rikerlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all due respect it depends on the chemistry between your and your prospective partner(s). Some peole don't want to appear to be 'easy' and wait, others don't like a tease who makes them wait for delivery and then when they get to the meal it's gone cold!
So, sorry not to be a direct help, but it is really a personal thing to which there is no right or wrong time. It will feel right!
2007-11-30 10:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was dating I kept a promise to myself that kept me from many heartaches. If a man could date me for six months with out having sex then he was worth making love to because other wise it was only sex and I didn't just have sex it had to be special. I lost many boyfriends but kept my self respect in the long run. Everyone has their own answer to how long to wait. I guess you go with your heart and your head. When your heart says yes but your head says no, wait until your sure and when both say yes and you know there will be no regrets then go for it. Hope this helps.
Justina
2007-11-30 10:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by s_and_j_hatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it all depend on how u feel about the person and if you think that this person is worth it. It doesnt matter how long you wait just follow ur mind.
2007-11-30 10:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This a moral question, are you doing what the rest of the world is doing, thinking it's right to follow the rest of the world?
If the rest of the whole population shot themselves in the head, would you do it also? This is a question only you can answer.
God Bless you and I hope you make the right choice.
2007-11-30 11:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally up to you. I know people who waited 4 hours, a week, a month and a few months and of course people who don't do it until marriage.
2007-11-30 10:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wait at least until half way through the first date.
2007-11-30 10:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by frogskin13 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the both of you. I don't advise too soon in a relationship though.
2007-11-30 10:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually wait until we order the appetizer.
2007-11-30 10:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by hauntedsnowfort™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try this. Wait until you are in love and committed to each other.
It makes making love mean something!
2007-11-30 10:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋