he contacted me recently to try and make plans to get together....we dated for about 9 months...it was pretty serious...we broke up about a year ago...we have stayed in contact over that year (long distance b/c he moved to la). he is in a new serious relationship. i am not in a relationship right now. he keep insisting that we meet up when he comes out here for a business conference..should i hang out with him?
2007-11-30 10:23:58 · 22 answers · asked by crazyrichgurl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we don't work together...
2007-11-30 10:28:36 · update #1
his new girlfriend is not okay with it...she has never like me because she never understood that we are still friends and nothing else
2007-11-30 10:32:08 · update #2
Of course. Sex with an ex is always good. You know thats what he wants right? or is he bringing his girl along with him?
2007-11-30 10:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by sickytwisted 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My first reaction was No - don't meet with him. He has a girlfriend and I'm thinking he just wants a one-night stand with you - that seems obvious to me. Now the fact that you are not in a relationship means you might be a bit vulnerable to his charms but seriously I think I would avoid this meeting even if out of respect for his present girlfriend. He is all for enjoying himself whilst on the business trip but let it be with someone else not you. Have an excuse why you cannot go out with him on a "date" and if you must just say to him you are busy with friends but you could "catch up" with him over a coffee at a cafe and just chat a bit and don't let it go further like back to your place or anything. If you are still keen on him in any way and vice versa then the truth will come out without you compromising yourself.
2007-11-30 10:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by veraswanee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that seems sketchy if he has a girlfriend now why would he want to meet up with his ex? if you two are good friends and his new gf wouldnt mind i guess it wont hurt. just be careful because you never know his intentions..maybe he's looking for sex on the side and thinks youll give it to him? i would suggest making sure his gf is ok with you two hanging out and when you do hang out that its in a public place so then nothing will happen b/c its easy for the past feelings to come back
2007-11-30 10:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, why wouldn't you. just b/c u had sex and he's now an ex doesn't mean you can't speak to the guy or hang out with....i mean you were friends when you were dating right? why would that change just b/c u r not having sex anymore. it's not like it was a bad break up you broke up b/c he moved to LA for a job opportunity.
2007-11-30 10:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by Hey U, Yeah U..Get over here 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, won't hurt, but keep in mind he's with someone; unless he plans to break up with the girl, I wouldn't urge accepting or making any physical advances with him.
It wouldn't be fair to the other girl.
Who knows, maybe you can keep a friendship out of this past relationship?
2007-11-30 10:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by shaRT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I would, if you keep in contact long distance then going out to lunch or whatever as friends would be fine.
2007-11-30 10:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by EchosOfAngels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 08:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by edgmon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as his new girlfriend is okay with him seeing an ex and he wants to see you as a friend, then sure, if your comfortable with it. If your not comfortable with seeing him it's okay to tell him no.
2007-11-30 10:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES You two have had time to get over each other so it would be nice to hang out with him.
2007-11-30 10:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by j_son_06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know best....sounds like you know it is a bad idea because you are asking about it. At the same time if you want to see him then do it.
2007-11-30 10:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋