what do guys look for in a girl?

Question

is it someone who is smart sexy cool to chill with easy to talk to or is it all looks? l8ly it seems all they look for is body and face. i think that's stupid

Answer 1

Some guys look for the looks ,but a real man will look for looks(or course)but, personalty,honesty, and who they and what they R about.

Answer 2

Not stupid. Just instinct. Guys are programed to procreate. So like any other animal in the jungle if we see a potential mate that attracts us that is our instinct. Fortunately (or unfoutunately - depending on how u look at it) we have been given the ability to plan, make choices, + communicate feelings with 1 another. Not everyone (male & female) has made it out of the jungle yet + some just may not want to just yet. I will promise you this; u'r just perfect the way u r 4 some1. This frustration u have now will make u appreciate "him" more when u find each other. Good luck:)

Answer 3

It depends on many factors, first and foremost being how ugly the guy is? No, just kidding!!! (sort-of, at least when you're young that's true!)

But the older the guys get (as well as you) the things guys (and yes, you, too!) look for change.

For the most part something that really doesn't change is they look for someone who's smart with a sense of humor they can talk with about basically everything. Of course if you look good it's easier to get a guy to notice those things about you!

FYI.....

Answer 4

I look for a girl who has sweet physical traits, blue eyed, shy but loving and supportive, loyal, who looks more cute than hot. Sexually active but not sexually driven.

I don't think it's usual. So the answer is: Every guy is different, don't try to follow up at all costs what MOST guys think as hot, but they ALL give some importance to looks. Everyone just has a differente type of girl. Ask yourself what the guy that interests you likes, but be yourself if you want to establish a lasting relationship.

Answer 5

Someone who is
-Smart
-Nice
-Caring
-Will always be there for him
-yet good looks (Looks aren't always everything so that's not entirely important)
-cool and chill like you said




^_^ BTW it is stupid if a guy just went out with a girl just for looks now that's a very idiotic guy right there

Answer 6

i agree with you that body and face is stupid when it comes to the ONLY thing guys look for a in girl. I look for a calm girl who isnt a control freak. There is so much more than looks and face but it is part of it.

Answer 7

I think you are right it is superficial and stupid but the higher power of life said go Fourth and procreate and He stopped right there he/she did not"t say go for and have a meaning full relationship just said go make babies that's great for men it sucks for women though.We men have only one thing on our mind find a pretty Woman and get her pregnant after awhile Pretty goes out the window with age

Answer 8

well here i know woman are the same way i all so know there can be a heavey ugly woman and a not so great looking guy who wants to ask her on a date but because hes not hot she wont date him or the other way around so if i see a nice looking female who has a nice body and shes sweet i would date her i all so been out with hot woman who have great bodys but are jerks and are not good in bed

Answer 9

Body and face issues are very important to both sexes. But unconditional love is the only factor that will hold two people together whether they have looks and especially if they don't...

Answer 10

There's no real trait. Any race, size, type is good enough for me; but THE ONE has to have some sort of magical chemistry with me where the energy around us feels like an eternal violet sunset. Yeah. I know. That sounds cheesy.

Answer 11

There are so many things to look for in a girl based on the guys desire. My personal preference is a fun loving girl. Intelligence, beauty, and everything else comes later on. I love to laugh, I love to be with a girl that laughs and can make me laugh.