ok so guys have said its looks that draw a guy in and personality that keeps him there. my question is what if your not so cute? Im kinda chubby and I used to have bad skin that left scars behind BUT i do think i have a good personality and im an amazing girlfriend, I mean i cook, clean, do laundry, i know how to have fun, Im super loyal and trusting, Im not bi*chy, but i cant seem to find a guy cause im just not that cute. how do you get a guys attention if your not a super model? I want a good guy so being slutty is not an option (not that slutty is even in my personality)
2007-11-30 09:58:57 · 7 answers · asked by ... 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do the best I can with what i have i dress nice and im alwyas clean and smell good and i always do my hair and make up
2007-11-30 10:06:07 · update #1
theres always gonna be someone out there that thinks your perfect!
2007-11-30 10:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter what you look like - most guys are terrified of rejection. (The ones that aren't, think they are God's gift to women - stay away from them!!!)
They don't say anything or ask you out because they have the same issues you do - they don't think they're good enough, they are afraid the next girl will tell them "Get lost, jerk!".
How do you get around that? Talk to the guys. Get to know them, make them feel comfortable around you, drop hints about what you like to do and what social events or bars or movies you are thinking about going to.
2007-11-30 18:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eventually you will just draw the boys in by your personality alone, because guys do actually look for something more than looks in a girl.
And anyway, wouldn't you rather be gaining a guy's attention because of your awesome personality rather than by what's on the outside?
*Be yourself*.
2007-11-30 18:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, most girls are NOT supermodels. Just be yourself. If you like a guy, tell him. I know its not easy sometimes but if you want it, go for it. Just be who you are and guys love that!
2007-11-30 18:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by savannah710c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
introduce yourself to the guys!!! if you start then you just skipped the cute part and moved onto personality!!
2007-11-30 18:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by mark_changalang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to talk to them or get a make-over.
2007-11-30 18:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by alyccia. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself, everybody has someone out there
2007-11-30 18:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kristiiinn [= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋