Is there a reason she is playing our relationship this way? young single mothers help me?!!?

Question

8 months ago i bumped into a girl i knew from school 6 years back (we were mates of mates back then but we had public crushes on each other at times), we hit it off and decided to meet up. we have alot in common (such as attending university) but shes had an unlucky relationship before she met me and with a bloke who got her pregnant and ditched her with a little girl who is lovely and her pride and joy!! for 8 months now she has showed an interest in me and made moves on me and then pushed me away, i have had another relationship since then and my first real heartbreak (id never been the one that got dumped before!), my feelings for her have never gone away and now she has created the same situation again where she shows interest and kisses me but then i wont hear from her for a while. she seems to enjoy cuddling and kissing, but has no interest in bf's? am i being played here , or are there other reasons for her to do this? young single mother in particular, i value your opinion

Answer 1

How about a guy who has been in your same situation? Someone who has tooken it as deep as it can go? Might help.

That aside understand that the situation she is, is complicated by the fact that she has kiddos, those kiddos came from someone else, that someone else is important to that single-mother, more so then you can ever be. One thing I constantly ran into was the fact that she would wish that he, was like me. This didn't help that she didn't think she was worth me neither. But typically its going to be EXTREMELY hard for you to get her, because of the insecurities that she has from the past relationship. If you can get past those, you might have her.....