do you think its wierd if you want 2 spend the rest of ur life with someone and ur only 15 yrs old and u want him 2 b ur babys daddy
2007-11-30 09:51:23 · 9 answers · asked by Brat 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
no i think everybdy goes thru that, i did an had a kid with him at 17 hes gone now
2007-11-30 09:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by mamaz= 1 an 1 on the way 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you a little advice. It is not weird to think that, but it would take a miracle for a relationship at your age to last forever.
Once you have a child, your childhood is OVER. Not too mention, how are you going to support a child? Neither one of you are probably out of high school....probably don't have jobs and if you do, the pay is not enough to raise a child or a family.
You don't realize it but a baby is a HUGE responsibility, and a heavy financial burden. Not to mention all the time you will have to give to a child taking away from you young life.....also....having a baby at your age, while your body is still developing, will cause health problem later on in your life....
I know that it seems like this is the right time and that you shouldn't wait....but you are still growing and maturing....and so is he. If your relationship is going to work....it will grow as you mature, no need to rush into it and make decisions that you may later regret. Wait until you both are old enough to make responsible decisions.....it will be worth the wait, whether you still are in love with this guy or if you have found a new love......
Just so you know...I am not just a parent saying this stuff, I was married at age 17, with a 3 month old daughter. My marriage did not last. And now at 42, looking back I can't believe I actually thought I knew what love was....
2007-11-30 21:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not weird but many 15 yr old girls are not ready for the RESPONSIBILITY of raising a kid.It isnt a new puppy you show off for a week or 2 then tie up in the yard and feed and water once a day.It is a 24-7 job hon and too many girls your age make babies with guys BEFORE you REALLY get to know the guy.Once they telltheir guy they are pregnant, they get to hear the 3 magic words most girls your age get to hear"it aint mine" or"do dna testing"....etc.Then she is left holding the bag and/or finds out later he wont work, he parties away all his money flirts with other girls etc and has another girl pregnant.
2007-11-30 18:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what are your thoughts on this list of foods I eat? be honest!
--i eat this on regular bases--
Enjoy:
octopus
fresh ginger
Garden tea (I pick my own herbs)
Some rotton eggs my mom is about to use (I love rotton egg!)
Chicken Dumplings with Pig "Parts"
Sashimi (*raw fish)
Raw Eel Salad
Raw squid
Calamari
sticky rice with mango
some vietnamese eggs my friends gave me
Cali Drink
Pickled Plums
Rice Balls & Pickles
Cucumber, avacado, melon milkshake
Egg rolls (filled with bean sprouts, squid, shrimp, and leftover kimchee)
Kimchee from my Mama Moi
Korean BBQ tofu
Dried-fried Wantan noodles
Rice Noodles
Rice flower candy
Botan Rice Candy
Spoiled milk for our upcoming dishes and a special milkshake
Wasabi
Green Tea
House Tea (made with bamboo, ginger, wasabi, and secret ingrediant)
Instant Bake fried rice cake (Like a fried rice loaf)
Ginger Infused Bread
Secret Sauces
Yarale Tokyo Mix Rice Crackers
Tempura
Bean sprout soup
Dragon Tea
Ginger Roots (a special side dish of my family’s)
Teriyaki Salmon
Salmon & Tuna rice balls
Shrimp Snacks (chips*)
Fish skin (my favorite is Salmon!)
Fish heads (including eyes)
Rice flower milk
Sake
Wined-down sausage (aka pig parts*)
Curry Noodles
--and a bunch of other asian dishes
I’m an Asian living around other types of Asians, so I get a mix of stuff... I am Japanese with some Hmong descendent. And just remember, if I respect America’s taste, please respect mine. But now is the time for you to tell ur honest opinion. Speak it out! Thanks for sharing your true thoughts~
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2007-12-01 14:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You're not even finished with puberty, and you're making long, long range plans.
I know it's hard, because you care so deeply for this person, but you've got to delay sleeping with him and having babies until one or both of you have graduated college. Otherwise, you're going to be working in Wal-Mart or McDonald's just to make the rent.
It's only fair to your baby/babies that you and your guy get the education you need so that the baby can have everything they need: medical insurance, toys, diapers, etc. Don't be in such a hurry to have babies that you doom them to a life of poverty. Okay?
Education first. Babies later.
TX Mom
2007-11-30 18:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm in love with this guy. and i'm 15, but he isn't just my boyfriend he has been my best friend for a long time. we can talk to each other about every thing. and i dont want to marry him but i definently want him to always be apart of my life. its not weird. but education first.. babies way way laterz..
2007-11-30 18:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not weird but i dont think you want that life yet.
2007-11-30 18:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by LOVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not weired, just unwise and immature.
2007-11-30 17:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by TryItOnce 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not weird but it will never last -- it never does
2007-11-30 17:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by livin the dream 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋