my ex and i broke up over the summer. i have had a hard time getting over it, but the one thing i noticed is that he keeps going after girls younger than him. he's 2o going to be 21, and they will be like 18. and on top of that, they are like...the dumbest, flakiest girls ever! he was my best friend...why is he stooping to this? he couldn't possibly be happy with people like that? they just use him, rebound on him, and then go for another guy. it's all shallow. what happened? why is he doing that? what does he think he has to gain from such immature relationships?
2007-11-30 09:39:49 · 8 answers · asked by o0mightyoak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for everyone wondering why i care. because, i miss him badly. calm down, i have not told him what i think, i have not stopped him from anything. i am just asking, because i want to understand why he is doing this. it may be none of my business, but you know what? i can't just turn my heart off, and this is something i wanted some advice on. so stop being so judgemental yourselves please.
2007-11-30 09:56:39 · update #1
they are easy...he is using sexual things with other girls to get over it..its a guy thing it immature it has nothing to do with you or your relationship just him thinking with his penis and going after whats easy.
2007-11-30 09:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by *Lovely 2* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like she said, they are easy. Some men don't care what the women they go out with do to them, as long as they are getting sex out of it. Maybe the reason why he dates girls like this is because he's just looking for sex and nothing with substance. So when they leave him he doesn't really care because all he really wanted was just sex to begin with. Just be there for him if you really care about him. You sound like a nice friend from what I read. Good luck.
2007-11-30 09:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by ღ♥Jess♥ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok hunny i think u have the problem ur jealous and u still love him thats why u r soo mean to these girls...He is 20 hellooooo dating an 18 yr old is ok they are not young they are considered adults.....when i was 18 my bf of 3 yrs now was 35 .....he finds me more interesting than he finds women his own age ...and trust me he is not in just 4 sex bcz if he was he wouldve left a long time ago and not wasted 3 yrs on me.....Get over it!!! he young too i cant believe ur calling them younger than him they are practically the same age.....You need to move on find a new bf !!!
2007-11-30 09:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ginger86 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
relatively, in case you acquire out of that dating, and you have not something greater to do with it, then that's none of your organization how he acts around those women, until you prefer to warn them approximately him.... additionally i'm extremely at a loss for words is this your father, or your ex-husband? because of the fact that's variety of not elementary for me to tell from what you reported.... in case you by utilising some undesirable good fortune had infants taken by utilising him interior the divorce, then you definately can attempt to get them out of there contained in direction of the criminal device, despite the fact that, in case you elect that path you will could spend somewhat some funds and there are not any ensures because of the fact the criminal device became corrupt as quickly because it got here into being....
2016-11-13 02:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably give him a good time. If they really are stupid, and fake like you say he probably would not date them. He just wants a good time.
2007-11-30 09:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry he is your EX as in has been as in we are not together --- why concern yourself with what he is doing???? --- its really not your business ----- let him get on with his life and you get on with yours --- if you were friends why cant you still be friends and not judge him and his choices??? --- best wishes
2007-11-30 09:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? Let him do what he wants.
2007-11-30 09:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
makes him feel powerful
2007-11-30 09:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋