well my girlfriend says she doesnt care if people know shes bisexual,but when asked she denys it and points at me.i am and i fully inbrace it. lately she has been acting strange she still says i love you but she doesnt hug or kiss me anymore and its really worring me. im not sure if there is someone else or if shes afraid someone will see her and know she really is. what do yall think is up?
2007-11-30 08:49:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she has decided she isn't bi anymore or something like that. I am sorry I have went through that with many of my ex's
2007-11-30 08:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by ~Nyckee~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is not as comfortable coming out with it the way you are. Some people need more time to figure out what their sexuality is. She may be scared that you will reject her for not understanding her right now, so she is avoiding you so she won't say the wrong thing. The only thing you can offer is being a good friend and being understanding when someone is vulnerable. Sit down and have a talk, tell her what you're feeling and ask her whats wrong. Assure her that you don't want things to end badly and you cherish her friendship. Women need reassurance and you should offer that even if things don't go exactly the way you want. Good luck!
2007-11-30 16:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kamuela B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's stopped hugging & kissing you, there is defitnetly an issue. I would sit her down and ask her outright whats going on? Be prepared for something that you may not be ready to hear... but the truth is always better than a lie anyday.
Good luck with that!
2007-11-30 16:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Uh-May-Zing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she may not be bi-sexual. She may have been going through an experimental phase. Sexuality can be confusing, to say the least. I don't know her age, however, the above is particularly true of young people. Or, maybe, as with any relationship, she has found someone else. Have you asked her what's up?
2007-11-30 16:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by tampagramma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You NEVER believe what people say.....OVER .... how they act. Your partner is not acting with concern for your feelings .....Her change of behavior indicates a change of her feelings.....
Tell her her actions indicate she has lost the respect and love she once shared with you. Tell her you still care but you miss the old partner.....and you have decided to walk away until you old lover decides to return.....
The reason for this approach is two fold.....FIRST the one who leaves first hurts least......SECOND.....If she does still care.....she will make amends..... if does not care she will walk away also.....and you are save a rude ugly breakup later
In addition if she has a change of heart later there is a possibility of a reconciliation
2007-11-30 17:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kojak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
intimately and personally she loves u but the fact of being a bisexual in public could scare making her not that much attracted t u anymore. I wouldn't think that she was cheating but I realy think that she is trully scared to embrace her sexuality in front of alot of people or just the public in general.
2007-11-30 16:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by "~T Rocka~`" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this girl, I would talk to her more about it. It isn't fair to you. So if I were you I'd honestly tell her that you need a little more and you need her to be open. If she can't do that for you, it's not worth and there's plenty of other guys and girls out there.
2007-11-30 16:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that she's ashamed of her sexuality. I think u two need to sit down and have a heart to heart conversation about it people change everyday and maybe her feelings about the situation have shifted and changed
2007-11-30 19:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by ~Cheta K.~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her, ask her what's going on, and tell her if she can't show you, you're taking a break or something like that.
2007-11-30 16:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Peaches~n'~Cream*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. She figuring herself and her relationships out. Be supportive and be her friend as well as her boyfriend. Your relationship will be stronger if you don't push her, just support her and listen to her as she finds herself, for herself.
2007-11-30 16:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by opinionator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋