okay so i like one of my best friends ex bf and i think he likes me too :) but i'm not sure. we talk now and have become very good friends and we always talk about if we do go out wat we'd do and stuff like that. So me and my bffab were mad at each other fr a while but now we're talking again and i don't want her to get mad at me if we do go out and mess up our friendship but i REALLY REALLY like this guy. so IF he ask me out should i say yes and risk my friendship with my bffab or say no and have him mad at me?
2007-11-30 08:36:28 · 5 answers · asked by mrs.patrickstump 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and to quote house "Bros before Hoes man"
except in your case, it'd be "sisters before misters"
It's pretty much the unwritten law of friendship between girls, never date your best friend's ex.
It's wrong and it just makes things tense between two good friends.
Friends are more important than boyfriends. A friend will always be there for you, but a boyfriend? Who knows
Good luck and i hope you and your friend will be okay
2007-11-30 08:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Aℓℓeekay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all u shouldnt even be thinking about that. Its very wrong for u to think about going out with ur friend's ex bf (specially since she's ur bff) She should be more important than any guy so if u dont wanna lose her, then just back off. How would u like it if she went out with ur ex and u still had feeling for him and she didnt know that? Bad, huh. =] There are tons of guys out there!
2007-11-30 08:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Carol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking to your friend and telling her how much you like this guy and would she be mad if you went out. If she says she'd be mad, then you have to decide do you want to ruin the friendship and go out with this guy or keep her as a friend.
2007-11-30 08:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by beaners1229 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u have to make a choice would is more important to you?
ur best friend
or a boy who u will only know for high school?
best friends last forever
ask ur bestfriend if its ok with her if shes unsure DONT SAY YES TO HIM
2007-11-30 08:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by PaPa j0hN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hecks yeah there exes are always off limits homie unless u ask your best friend and there okay with that but most likely there going to have problem with it
2007-11-30 08:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by monkey sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋