Me and my lady have been together about a year and I was wondering ~how come its always me who has to start getting intimate with her and never Her coming onto me ~ are some girls just like this ? I've asked my friends and they say that there wives are all the same way ~that if they Didn't ever try it probably would never happen ???????
Why is this Ladies ?????
2007-11-30 08:23:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of us just don't have the "sex drive" as Men do. Men think about sex at least a dozen times a day (so I saw on a News show !) And women don't. Women have many other things in the fore front of their minds, that they need to be "reminded" at times about sex. Also, it's sexy when the guy does suttle things to his girl to get her on the same "plain" as He is...and if you hit enough of the right buttons (casual rub or squeeze, etc..) Who knows, she just may Jump you before you have to actually initiate things!! Good Luck !!!
2007-11-30 08:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard question. I guess it is just nature. a lot of times we (women) tend to focus more on other things, family, work, ect.. and forget of the importance of mantaing a good sexual relationship with our partner. But that does not mean we do not like it, it just depends on the person. Also, rembers that men tend to be more sexually active than women. I see you guys have been together a year, and that is hard to belive, this can happend like after 10 or 15 years of marriage. Well, maybe she does not like something about it. Talk to her about it and she might tell you why.
Good Luck....
2007-11-30 16:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK why women are like this. I guess it's because by and large, women like to be submissive in intimate situations.
Personally, I have heard from SO many guy friends and boyfriends over the years that men LOVE it when females initiate intimacy.....I've come out of my shell and I'm not afraid to be the one to start. It takes some practice, though. Encourage her, tell her what you'd like her to do and be patient. If she loves you, she'll try! :-)
2007-11-30 16:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women LOVED to be chased. It lets us know that you are always interested. Let her know that she isn't the only one who likes to be chased. Hopefully she will get the hint. Just keep in mind that she cant read your mind. Besides men seem to just need it more then women.
2007-11-30 16:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just some ladies are shy.....or they just think its the guys job to do it!!!
2007-11-30 16:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make you men feel like men...haha
2007-11-30 16:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by anyone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋