hey i have a 14 yr old sister and she is dating a guy n they have been going out for almost a month......do you think she is to young to date...and i have told her that she cannot have a bf at her age cuz she is way to young and she rlly likes this boy what do i do????
2007-11-30 04:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no reason she can't have a special boy she likes and wants to spend some time with; it's not like she making a commitment and is obligated to marry this guy or something like that.
2007-11-30 04:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her!! Most girls start getting boyfriends and that in year 6 in school when there bout 11. 14 Is definatly not to young for boyfriends. if its lasted a month then it could work but (and this is ment in the nicest way possible) You shudnt be butting into her life when it coems to boys any way unless the guy is a complete maniac lol
2007-11-30 12:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AH!!!!! 14 years old!!! wow there are alot of girls that are dating at this age... and they shouldnt.
tell your sister that she is kinda young. that she should be really good friends with this guy, and if there is something truly there, then when she is 16 or so, then give it another try. you really shouldnt date at this age, only becase if you take this too far... then "things" could happen that should not happen for a while.
so anyways... sit your sister down, and talk to her. make her understand...
dont come off like you are on her case.
just tell her how you feel,
and tell her to take it easier....
if the guy is a good one, he can wait.
2007-11-30 12:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, 14 years old is really young, however by dating a person she likes he could take advantage of her since she is young. Also that is not safe.
2007-11-30 12:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by TheWebMaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. She started adolesence only a year ago. Her hormones are off the roof. Let them date, but make sure that they don't do more than that!
It's great to see that you're a caring sister.. Good Job :D.
2007-11-30 12:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by introspective rissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support her. some people mature faster than others maybe she is really mature and knows what she wants and that is a boyfriend, just talk to her about how you feel and i bet she will understand and help you understand that she is not a little kid anymore. Good Luck ;)
2007-11-30 12:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking to her and let her know how you feel, but you can't really ban it. Help her see that she should be doing stuff in groups and not getting too deeply involved in any one guy.
2007-11-30 12:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should maybe layoff a little. but you should still be a sister, and ask her about him, and if she doesnt want to talk about it... dont force her. ya know what i mean?
2007-11-30 12:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alyssa you cant do anything about it because shell rebel and you do not want that:) just be a friend tell her she can tell you anything and you wont tell anyone and dont unless she gets in troble?????thats all i can say
2007-11-30 12:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by sunsetbeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly....i believe she is just starting to become a teenager so i would suggest you to do what her heart tells her to...
2007-11-30 12:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋