i am muslim, my mother died on 10 nov 2007, how i can help my mom after her death
2007-11-30 04:06:25 · 15 answers · asked by aman a 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
Your mom's gone. She no longer needs your help. Do you feel guilty about not helping her before she died? Sounds like it.
2007-11-30 04:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by Charles WE 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not a muslim, so I don't know anything of what you believe in an afterlife.
Before my mom died (Nov 2004), she made me promise to take care of her dog, and to cry for her for a little while and then stop. She didn't want the burden of grief for her death to affect my life.
I think that's what your mom would want for you, too.
Take care.
Debbie
2007-11-30 12:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a muslim too, and I sympathize for you and your family. There is a way you can help her. Pray for her a lot. She can still benefit from it.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "When a person dies, all his deeds come to an end except three: sadaqah jaariyah (ongoing charity, e.g. a waqf or endowment), beneficial knowledge (which he has left behind), or a righteous child who will pray for him." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, no 1376; he said this is a saheeh hasan hadeeth)
2007-11-30 12:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by orangesarsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After demise of any person, each religions have their own methods of keep soul of deceased person in peace.
Apart from religious method, one needs to make an endeavorer to promote good thoughts of deceased person in the best possible manner. In addition, one can make efforts for welfare of the society and his/her nation.
2007-12-01 01:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Shrichand Nahar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom is okay. Help yourself by talking to her, praying for her soul, doing things that you enjoy and appreciating being alive.
2007-11-30 12:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can help your mom by helping people remember her. Keep her memory alive and let people know what kind of a person she was.
2007-11-30 12:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can help her by keeping her memory alive in your own heart and the heart's of her family and friends. I am very sorry for your loss.
2007-11-30 19:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Randy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Full fill her dream . What she wants you to be?
every mother wants her child to be successfull in whatever they do ...
So go ahead and make your mother happy..
All the best.
2007-11-30 15:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by abc_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't help anyone after they die
that is why it is called death
the person is dead and gone
maybe you should ask your question in a religion category and not the health section
2007-11-30 12:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The deceased are in good hands and no longer need our help.
2007-11-30 12:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by Reverend Black Grape 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋