2007-11-30 01:21:47 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you were wrong, telling the truth about santa was her job, she is the mother and she gets to decide what to tell her children. When it comes to belief i think the parents are the ones who should speak to their children, when children ask you direct them to their parents.
2007-11-30 01:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by therearetwosidestoeveryquestion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old the kids are.. I realized there was no Santa Clause when I was about 8 or 9.. Maybe 7. So if the kids were younger than that I would say you really hurt them... I would be a little upset with you as well I would tell the kids you were only kidding around -
2007-11-30 01:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what a killjoy, I don't blame her one bit. If I was her, I would tell then that you don't believe in santa because you were so naughty as a child that he crossed you off the Christmas list. Kids grow up fast enough, good onya. If she can't reverse their thinking, she should tell them she is the easter bunny and the tooth fairy as well. When mine finally worked out there was no Santa (around 10 - 11) I told them the rest on the same day, to avoid further disappointment, but they still got presents, easter eggs, and tooth money, so all was not lost.
Ya big meanie, nothing nice for you this Chrissy!
2007-11-30 01:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Janet B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Paul, you were wrong. You've taken away part of the innocence that makes Christmas a special time for kids. It's the parent's decision when and if they're told about Santa outright or allowed to figure it out for themselves. You had no business getting into it at all.
Way to go. You have some serious sucking up to do before you're likely to be forgiven.
2007-11-30 01:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd be mad at you too - you're a dream crusher. Kids are supposed to believe in things like Santa, the Tooth Fairy and the Easter bunny, because it's good for the morale and their imagination. If they were your biological children I'd say tell them what you feel they need to know, but you definitely should have consulted with your girlfriend before you ruined her children's dreams.
2007-11-30 01:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she does have a rite. for 1 ur not their dad and 2 why would u even tell a kid that santa isnt real? those kids r now probely crushed and very hurt thats y shes mad. if i were u i would try and makes things better. try and make the kids feel better and dont say something like that to them again.
2007-11-30 01:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by April M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are the kids? What was wrong with letting them eventually grow out of the Santa belief stage?
2007-11-30 01:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Gabi ng Lagim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why she's mad at you? That's a horrible thing to do, otherwise a complete act of stupidity if it was unintentional.
Unless the kids are over the age of twelve... they need to grow up. I remember when I was told that Santa wasn't real, I cried my eyes out.
2007-11-30 01:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by Raquel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you are wrong.. you just broke the hearts of the little kids.. and for your information there was a Santa Clause.. But its still rude to say that to your gf's kids.. you shouldn't break their christmas spirit. Say sorry for that. I bet she'd forgive you since its Christmas. :D
2007-11-30 01:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is not your place to tell them that unless you and your GF decided on that issue together.
Besides, Santa Claus is for those that want to believe in the magic of Christmas.
Happy Holidays!!
2007-11-30 01:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by Trish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋