Let me give an example- my sister had a conversation with a married co-worker about sex- just chit chat. Now everytime she is around him, his is flirty with her. She insists she did nothing in the conversation to indicate she was interested in him. I, myself have found if I discuss the subject of sex with a guy, often, he starts hanging around more. Is the topic always perceived as a come on even if you feel you did nothing to make it seem as such?
2007-11-30 01:17:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are biologically wired to be constantly observing women in order to ascertain their availability and receptivity for sexual contact.
Women send out signals to the men around them to let them know who they find acceptable for interaction. They unconsciously put up shields to some men and lower shields to others.
The following are some of these "lowering of shields" signals:
- extended eye contact
- brief physical contact during casual conversation
- conversation of an intimate nature - including sex
Talking about sex tells the man, whether you intend it or not, that you are receptive to his further advances. Talking about sex while gazing intently into his eyes and gently touching his hand tells him ...... well, ,,,,,, I think you get the idea.
2007-11-30 01:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by lunatic 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
For the most part I would have to say yeah most guys would start thinking it is. Just cause it opens up the oppertunity in thier eyes. They associate you (or the woman they are talking to) with sex. Primal I know but it happens.
That being said... It is not always the case. I have had several conversations with several women, about sex.. Without ever wanting to or acting on, having sex with them.
So I guess you are just talking to the wrong guys.
2007-11-30 09:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the men...some of them are mature enough to handle sex talk , others think that women do that cause they are interested....I do discuss sex with a male friend of mine...but never from both sides we acted flirty...
2007-11-30 09:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by shinersd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am happily married. I have plenty of guy friends. We talk about relationships (with females and sex comes up). Nothing wrong here. I approach it very matter-of-factly. Of course, I'm more of a tomboy in personality, a hottie in looks. Good luck.
2007-11-30 09:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had thousands of conversations about sex with women in my life time.
But, when a woman talking about sex starts to eye you, crosses her legs a lot, her nipples keep poking through her top, her hands get sweaty and she's touchy-feely... She keeps flinging her hair, batting eyes, saying anything suggestive...
Then I have to come to the conclusion she's hitting on me.
Otherwise if she keeps the 'talk' very limited and not too detailed... As in no details at all... Then I know she's not attempting to hit on me or turn me on.
Usually about 1 out of every 350 women talk to men about sex without coming on to them. Under all other circumstances, women don't discuss sex with men unless they're hitting on them, or trying to turn them on and tease them.
2007-11-30 09:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The second you start talking about sex with a man he will begin to envision you in whatever context you are discussing. Once he has envisioned you in a sexual situation, it's all downhill from there.
2007-11-30 09:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by suspendedagain300 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I've had conversations with guys about sex, and they acted just he same afterward. I guess it depends on the person you talk to.
2007-11-30 09:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't had any in a while it's hard not to think that. Flirting is healthy, and maybe he just needs to get his heart beat up every once in a while.
2007-11-30 09:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it has happened to me and I don't jump into conclusions If it's just a talk that is all just a simple natural conversation and that is as far as it goes.
2007-11-30 10:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the 2 people are mature
2007-11-30 09:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋