can't ctrl myself.my mind dun want that,but my body needs that wat to do,plz help me
2007-11-30 00:44:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ovbiously you are not ready to do whatever your body wants to do...so don't.
2007-11-30 00:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by ☆ღღ☆ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Several alternatives,,,
Tell him not to do it when you dont want to.
Tell him he can do it in cirtain situations,,,say in the bedroom or in a private place.
Have some self control and learn to resist the LUSTFULL,****** "URGES" OF THE FLESH lol
Why fight a sexual urge! Its behavior like that which could turn you into a sex addict or something. Why dont you at least have a day or time of day when you can let go and do what your body wants. The mind and body are inatly connected and if you are aroused by your boyfriend touching you then you should let it happen.
2007-11-30 00:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Karl L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are just lonely, and settling for what is available.
Allow time.
Time will tell.
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2007-11-30 01:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u r in a state between passion and love,coz when he hugs and kisses u, ur passion says tat it needs more but on the other hand your love says tat you are not yet ready for it.
with this state the passion always wins coz its the hormone tat plays the role in it.so u really cant control tat.. but on the other hand u can approach your BF by letting him know tat u r not yet ready for any physical relationship . remember i really dont know abt your BF mind coz if he not able to understand what u r going thru then it will lead u into trouble with him. coz some boys once they get used to physical relation then it very hard for them to stop tat.
if ur BF is really understanding then u can le thim know tat u r not yet ready for it.
but one global truth abt love tat i need to say you. its.. when we want to express our love towards our partner we express the most thru kissing.. and a hug can really say how much it is.. so.. think of it...
2007-12-02 23:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Moh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becasue love is not about kissing adn hugging so its better to be away from this side . On other hand may be if you let him do what ever he want to then he will leave you and do this for other.. so my advice to you take care ... From your inside you are not liking this to happened like that so i feel you perfer it to happened when you married him which is right .. all the best
bye
2007-11-30 00:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by DON 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be strong and follow your heart because if you keep on doing that for your body then it will compromise your heart and maybe your beliefs. Going along with this could get you hurt...
2007-11-30 00:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe thats a sign that that guy is not made for u so its better that u tell him that u dont like this .but being a girl i dont mind if my bf hugs me actually i would like it.may be thats da way i think not u.all da best.
2007-12-02 21:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to figure out by urself. Thts the best way to find any solution.
2007-11-30 01:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by amiable.ashish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really want to do it, but you don't want to admit it. So you say that your body needs it and blame that mysterious entity. OK, whatever.
2007-11-30 00:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by mikeburns55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit him with a frying pan, sister. Show that lousy, good-for-nothin' groping ape who's boss!
2007-11-30 00:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Milquetoast 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
having a boyfriend and not being able to control yourself is at time good,but why would you not want your boyfriend to touch you? you need to figure out where or who yoyu actually want be with!!!
2007-11-30 00:50:00 · answer #11 · answered by adejahmb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋