i got arrested last week and cuffed behind my back by the police officer. The cuffs were put on real tight which hurt my wrists.... i was later released without charge.
This week my boyfriend decided to buy some police handcuffs from ebay. He then put handcuffs on me in the bedroom, which i wasnt too sure about, but i guess he liked it!!
He cuffed me behind my back for ages, then he released me and i cuffed him, lol.
he said he wanted to arrest me.....
have you ever been handcuffed??
xx
2007-11-30 00:37:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I was arrested once and had a old girlfriend who used to cuff both my hands to the bed so she could have her way and I couldnt touch her. SWEEETTT!!
2007-11-30 00:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by Zodiack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are experimenting with bondage. It can be a lot of fun with someone that you trust!
HOWEVER... you need to be aware that with everything, there are risks, and the right and wrong way to do things.
There are a lot of nerves in the wrist that can be bruised or damaged if bound too tight. Handcuffs don't have a lot of "give" to them, thus creating pressure points. A bruised nerve can cause numbness, pain, and tingling for months while it is healing. If it is damaged, it can be permanent.
If using a scarf or rope, make sure the knots don't slide, making it tighter when pulled on. You best bet it to purchase cuffs. You should be able to slip 2 fingers beneath the skin and the cuff/rope. Also, it is imperative that your "captor" always check the color and temperature of your hands - they shouldn't feel cold, or turn dark red or blue - this indicates poor circulation and they should be removed immediately.
Do some research. The internet has a plethora of information on technique. The key word to use in your internet search is "bondage techniques" - just searching for "bondage" will bring up a lot of adult sites. Cheaper cuffs tend to be a bit rough around the edges and can chafe the skin. Sometimes it is a fun reminder for the days that follow - but can also reaise an eyebrow at work.
Another poster suggested the collarme website. As with all internet meeting services, use a lot of caution. There are a lot of "internet Dom/me's" that are in it for the power trip, and can hurt you out of carelessness or ego. If you go in that direction, look into the BDSM communities in your area. There is a lot of information on how to go about everything safely - you should never do it in secret, meaning, meet someone and not tell anyone where you are going.
2007-11-30 00:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have. It can be quite sexy but it's not something I would be THAT into... I like to be using my hands LOL
Make sure you really trust this guy if you are letting him cuff you though because if he isn't genuine it could be a very difficult situation.
2007-11-30 00:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by munchkin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
never be arrested but like to be cuffed or the use of leather restraints
2007-11-30 00:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by prince 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a few times. but never by a real police officer
2007-11-30 00:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i envey u,u r so lucky coz u have a partner who u can share these intimate moments with and have a lot of fun,my answer is no coz i do not have a girl friend to do this kind of stuff with her lol,but i would like to try it out coz it sounds like a lot of fun lol.
2007-11-30 01:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they werent the soft fuzzy kind , I have to agree and say they hurt and it is not a good thing. IMO
2007-11-30 00:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lol yes but they were my sisters toy cuffs lol
2007-11-30 00:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Tunisian barbie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I love it.
2007-11-30 00:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Pretty in punk chick 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have by the police nt by my fella tho
2007-11-30 01:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋