It seems that in modern day society it is all-too-obvious that bisexuality is rampant among women and even lesbianism. And society dictates that homosexuality is much more acceptable among women since they are 'hotter' and loathed when among men. So it seems that women aren't really attracted to men and have little reason to date men. So my question is, how can men feel good about themselves when society shows that men are basically ugly and unwanted unless for financial purposes or protection or something?
2007-11-29 19:42:37 · 9 answers · asked by Gary 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Well, first off, if all men feel like this, then they should stop promoting girl-on-girl action. I know it's not "guys' fault" ... they don't force women to be with other women. But pop culture condones it, and it came about, I think, because so many guys LOVE the idea of being with two women at once. Also, just an FYI - - society doesn't HATE homosexual males. And, to answer your question, many, many women love men. Not all of us are bisexual or lesbians. In fact, most of us aren't. Otherwise, why would homosexuality be the abnormal (not my personal view) as opposed to the norm?
2007-11-29 19:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, speak for your self. because it would take ten lesbians and a Lamborghini to replace what I can do for a woman, and I could not give a flying flip about what society thinks because society does not pay my bills, as for the bisexual thing go's been there done that and not only dose it not matter to a woman, they respect me more for having the guts to try it. the sex with a man was great and fun, but I would never be with a man for more than a cheap fling, I love woman and they love me.This question has to take the prize? you have some how managed to pass ridicules and you seem to have arrived at redunkuless? What city do you live in and how do you arrive at this concussion? what facts? If you just turn off your television and go out in to the real world you just might realize how there is no true basis for this question. while it is true that the people on MTV are all hot and stupid, I not not feel that they adequately represent the average young American. this is prof that television make you less intelligent. read a book please.
2007-11-29 20:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Super Star 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, Gary... I don't know where you hang out, but you need a change of venue. Yes, there might be a lot of gay women, but they are not, and never will be, the majority. MOST women are straight. MOST women LIKE men.
It is true that except for reproduction, women don't NEED men, but isn't it better to be WANTED than needed?
I hope that somehow YOU find a way to feel better about yourself.
2007-11-29 19:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by luvrats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is absurd. I don't know what women...or even men you are hanging out with that draw you to this conclusion. The question doesn't even make sense. But to answer the base question, I feel good about myself because I don't give any credit to what society thinks about me.
2007-11-29 19:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to travel more, men are not regard as ugly around the world, maybe only in America. Other part of the world, men have more than one wife....
2007-11-29 20:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by gannoway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know what you are getting at, but that was certainly a one-sided narrow point of view. You cannot catagorize the whole male population or the all women that way. You are listening to one point of view that may sound like "everyone" but it is not.
But you have focused in on what a mess our society is ...and how it is affecting men in the process.....and it is why God says there is a right and a wrong...and there are consequences to our actions.
What you are really saying is that "sin" is rampant in the world....and sin can really mess things up.
I think you are spending time with the wrong people if this seems so prevelant in your circles. You would not find this in mine!
You see if you listen to God, and you follow His rules...then you won't see this occurring with those following Him. So I have raise five children, all are happily married with children, and all are raising their children to follow Him as well. And God promises to bless those who listen....and God has a plan for your life, if you choose to listen to Him.
God planned for the man to be the leader of His home, to find a wife to be a partner with him, to care for her in every way, and to work together with her as a team. Each has a role to play....and if they are choosing to follow God...they do not play around with immorality because God says they will not inherit the kingdom of God....He very clearly says so.
You see the world is messed up by sin. And only God can fix it.....but we each have a personal choice...He does not force anyone to love Him. But He sent Jesus to die for our sins....just like you are talking about....He died in our place, and we can choose to follow HIm. It is God's plan to rescue us from a sinful and fallen world. And life here is just the beginning. The answer to your question is to ask God what He wants you to be. You are just as he planned you to be....just don't listen to the world....their answers are wrong.
Choose to find God...and you can do that by finding a Bible believing, Bible teaching church....and they can tell you how.
It will change your life, and give you the purpose you are looking for.
2007-11-29 19:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by samantha 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Lower the prices back to 2 bucks a pop.
2016-04-06 05:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Box of kleenex and a bangbros subscription. No chance of pregnancy either. Have fun.
2007-11-29 19:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, I've got some money.........bring em on..........I'm not THAT ugly.....lol.
2007-11-29 19:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋