For example, women synchronize their menstrual cycles when they spend a lot of time together. If we have sexual fantasies, does the other person also have sexual fantasies?
2007-11-29 15:31:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Chain reaction?
2007-11-29 15:45:11 · update #1
We could only wish. I think most sexual fantasies are never answered in kind by the subject of those fantasies.
Alas, Jessica Alba doesn't even know I exist.
**sigh**
2007-11-29 15:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rick K 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. One particularly beautiful girl I knew who was really curvy ask me this: "Why is it that just because a girl has big breasts, all the men think a she's aroused?"
People we feel turned on by are quickly aware of it. There's body language -- both conscious and unconscious -- and pheromones at work, too. But that doesn't mean the feeling is returned.
Then again, we all have our susceptible moments. As the French saying goes: "In the dark, all cats are gray." That's why we call it 'Getting Lucky'.
But as your avatar shows you're a girl, I'll add this: when a woman is aroused, if she lets a man know it (either verbally or physically) then the chances are he's going to respond. I'm talking straight people here, of course. This is a basic difference between the sexes: women (for good reasons) are much choosier than men are when it comes to new partners.
2007-11-29 23:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by titou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"getting lucky" was explained above by Titou.Clever Dog.As for women's "moon" cycle,that is called that because of the 28 day cycle of the moon and the "rough" 28 day menstrual cycle (not actually in complete conjunction with the phases of th moon,this would of course be much better for us "poor" blokes to work out when we are "for it" monthly if that were the case)As for Fantasies,in my experience they are best kept that way.As Fantasies.If you fancy the pants off anyone,they usually become aware.If you hide that,then you lower your chances.Sometimes a blatant approach gets results (getting lucky) Better to try than to sigh.Go get em! If their not interested,i am more than certain this feeling will re-occur with another in the not too distant future,so if at first you don't succeed,then try try again.(as for the rape answer above,i think they misinterpreted your question)
2007-11-30 02:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by SIMON H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a great question!!! To my experience it's never happened but I don't know if that's just me and the way that my relationship have worked out of it is because I tend to keep a lot of me under wraps unless I know someone really well and unless I trust them explicitly. I would like to know if it's happened to anyone else and I'm going to ask some friends and family who have been with their spouse from 18 years to 63 years that might help you get a good answer. I'll get back to you before the end of the weekend as I'm going to be asking family and it's easiest to reach them on the weekends.
2007-11-29 23:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Kathryn R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is NO valid scientific evidence to support that theory.
Women's menstrual cycles are synchronized through the action of a pheremone. Not the moon.
2007-11-29 23:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. AjC ♍ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutley not. Im not sure how the reasoning is the same. Women's menstrual cycles synchronize based of the moon and the earth after all we are mammals. If it worked that way I think everyone would be screwing pamela anderson! Haven't you heard of rape.... kinda goes along with what your saying.
2007-11-29 23:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by rachel g 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋