Is it true that you shouldn't sit around waiting for love? And you should just let it come to you naturally?
I mean, it sounds reasonable, but on the other hand, sometimes you have to make stuff happen on your own right?
2007-11-29 15:21:45 · 31 answers · asked by Doll♥. 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes, sometimes you have to make stuff happen. If you sit around passively waiting for love, it might not ever happen. However, you can't force love either. Helping it along is good, but at what point do you draw the line between helping and pushing? That I don't know.
2007-11-29 15:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
no u should not sit around waiting on love...cuz if u do then every new door that opens u will b on the lookout for love...the first thing u will want to see is "has love come yet" ...by doing that u will miss everything else that is valuable ...or could b valuable in ur life. there's a saying there's a time for everything...well wen the time is right love will just show up or pop up...and u wont kno what hit u...sitting around waiting will just get u depressed thinking that ur gonna end up alone for the rest of ur life and hurt by many unsuccessful relationships that u thought were love ....yes certain things u have to make happen on ur own...love is a two way street...u gotto giv a lil n take a lil...if u get to know someone really well...and their really interested in u...but cant call u for some unknown reason...u will have to make the first move...if u want to know if its going anywhere...
2007-11-29 23:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been persued quite a bit, but there was never quite like the love at first sight expirience that was mutual like something out of the most romantic movie ever but still even more. That one happened when I had no interest in relationships at all and was set on being single. It is best to just let things happen naturally.
2007-11-29 23:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love happen for yourself is as easy as this. Live your life making you the best and happiest you that you have ever wanted to be, live being open to true and honest friendships and love will come your way.
I didn't find love until I had given up on ever finding it and devoting myself to me. I worried about me and my career and my learning and my having fun. Within a year there he was. He wasn't my type so I felt safe to the possibility of a real friendship and that lasted about 4 hours before I realized he was everything that I had ever dreamed of.
Over 4 yrs later, life is great and you should see our little boy!
2007-11-29 23:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't LOOKing for love, being that I was already dating someone...
But I didn't wait for it to pursue me either. I took charge, grabbed the bull by the horns, and took a chance.
My b/f who moved from NY to TX and hadn't bought a new car yet didn't have one. He said to ask "that guy by the tree" for a ride home. So I did, and 7 1/2 years later, I made the first move, I started the first kiss, I said I love you first, just about the ONLY thing he beat me to, was asking me to marry him! Only b/c I refused to do that haha.
6 1/2 years later he asked me to marry him. It's now 7 1/2 years later and we're expecting a baby girl in Feb 2008!
2007-11-29 23:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by mzfshonble05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay home all day long, nothing will happen. But trying to chase LUV all night long is also dangerous. Take time, in slow motion, no hurry and when the look in his eyes arrive... be a hunter of his Love!
2007-11-29 23:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know I had a room mate that didn't go out much and he some how got a girl friend. I am of the proactive school myself but its good to let things flow too.
2007-11-29 23:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Rational Humanist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tjhink you have to go out & make stuff happen. If you sit at home all the time, never go out, join clubs or socialise how are you able to meet any one & find love??........
2007-11-29 23:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by chazta01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and make it happen or u will be waiting all ur life go out have fun find a cool guy u like and have fun with and if its ment to be it will be
2007-11-29 23:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe it is better to let it come to you. And when it does, make it happen.
2007-11-29 23:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋