Ideas for a depressed man.?

Question

I don't like my life.
I have a few friends and they don't respect me.
My girlfriend likes me, but I think she finds me boring. I belive that she would prefer a more decisive and optimistic guy. I don't blame her.
I am a weak man.
When people tease me, I don't stand up for me. I really don't like to be humiliated, but I always think twice before stand up.
I have low self steem.
I'm 26 and the only thing I can do is to draw, and not very good.
I don't have a job.

I don't have nothing to loose.
Could someone give me good ideas to change my life?
Do you know Any crazy job? Anything?

i live with my parents... yeah....

Answer 1

First, I'd tell you to go to your doctor and get meds for depression.

Second, you have to stop thinking of yourself as the victim. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. I'm surprised you even have a girlfriend with that attitude.

You are 26! That is very young-you have your whole life ahead of you and if you continue with this pity party you will wake up on day at 40 and wonder what the heck happened to you.

You really need to get over it. Sorry, but that is the truth. Go to college, get a job.

Answer 2

Well, if you're just 26 and don't have a criminal record, you could get focused on an education and plan a real life ahead. Put some energy in making things look better. Don't waste too much time on computer games. Work on a Roth IRA. It'll come in handy after you retire. Good luck!

Answer 3

I don't know if you need a crazy job necessarily, I would try this. Write or draw since you are good at it what you want your life to look like. Be specific, define a longer term goal and set a date, its ok to change the date as needed later on but its important to set a goal and a time line. Now work backwards looking at your goal what needs to be accomplished for you to manifest this life. Start small, find the easiest mini-goal and work towards it and then expand from there. I suffer from depression too, this method does work but you got to keep yourself aware of the process and it is a process and allow for down days, hold yourself accountable but be forgiving too you are only human.

Answer 4

Go do something radical for Jesus. God created you for something much more awesome than laying around waiting for someone to like you more. You get what you give. Sometimes it's hard, but sometimes the simplest act done in the right way can turn someone's life around...someone who probably has it much worse off than you do...and someone who only YOU will be able to touch.
I know you don't know me, but if I could share a bit of my life with you, I gladly will. Take care, and don't feel alone, we all come to that point at one time or another. The important question is what will you do about it?

Answer 5

If you don't have anything tying you down, maybe you could do something like joining the Peace Corp or volunteering with the USO. It sounds like you're looking to do something fairly big, and that you could use a change of scenery, and it also sounds like you need something to make you feel useful. Helping people can be one of the best ways to build your own self esteem and realize your own worth as a human being. Whatever you do, I wish you luck. You sound like a nice person, and it's a shame for you to be so down on yourself.

Answer 6

i think that u should stop talking down about urself so much
that's not going to help ur problem at all. U should just look
at the brighter things in life, and just live ur life and stop
making urself feel sorry 4 urself, and if ur friends don't RESPECT u then there not ur friends, smile and go eat some ice cream. hopefully life will get better ( ;

Answer 7

Mailman? Check out guy? Lollypop man?

Or, excercise heaps and become a personal trainer. It will help decrease your depression as well as aiding your self esteem.

Answer 8

You could try to help people less fortunate. Volunteer at shelter of some kind and realize that when you say "I don't have nothing to lose" your 'nothing' is a lot more than some people have.

Answer 9

sounds like me xcept i don't have a bf and im 24

u do have something to lose n its ur life u only get to live for a short time n after that u'll be dead forevr..so try 2 live for as long as u can n find something to do. like look at the stars n try to see something amazing like a supernova or a comet or something..

hope u feel better soon....

Answer 10

Not every person likes their life,but life is what you make it,because no matter where you go you have to take you with you.If you imagine yourself a good guy,then you will be one.You are what you want to be.Try looking in the mirror and learning to appreciaTE WHAT YOU SEE,THEN START WITH THE PERSONALITY. Only you can change you.Good luck!