there's this super cute guy who liked me and i liked him too...he always tried ask me out...but he never directly told me that he liked me but i knew since his friends had told me...i guess he was intimidated by me or something...or maybe he feared that i might reject him....anyways, he would always tell me that i should go out, or maybe go to a party/club with him...he asked me why i was dating anyone or didn't want a boyfriend, i told him because i just wasn't ready for a relationship yet....so i think he kinda got his answer...anyway, a month later i was at a grocery store, gettting some stuff and as i'm exitting and going towards my car...i see him there too...i think me saw me too and that's why he started pretending as if he was tying his shoelace...so he bended down and then i couldn't see his face...so i get in my car and wait and then he walks off toward the store and i can clearly see that it's him...
2007-11-29 14:41:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
however, i'm wondering why he didn't say hi to me or anything?
I'm not sure if he's mad at me or what....i mean, why would he be mad at me when i didn't even "reject" him...???
he just completely acted like he didn't know / see me....
And why was he pretending to tie his shoelace when it wasn't even untied ???
i was gonna go say hi to him but i didn't cuz i didn't want things to became even more "awkward"....
he is btw too prideful and has a big ego...so i guess maybe that's why....i don't know...it would have been nice tho if we said hi or something...
2007-11-29 14:41:17 · update #1
I DIDN'T EVEN REJECT HIM....I JUST SIMPLY SAID THAT I WASN'T READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP...AND I DIDN'T WANT A BOYFRIEND RIGHT NOW...THAT'S ALL...
DOES THIS MEAN THAT HE STILL HASN'T MOVE ON YET ???
2007-11-29 14:42:44 · update #2
honestly i would have gone out with him but i just have soo much going on in my life right now....there's college, my part time job...i just moved to a brand new place....
2007-11-29 14:43:39 · update #3
What a jerk!
2007-11-29 14:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well first, I think yoo need to stop and look at all the small details here that you're obviousley missing
1.he likes you.
2.you like him? or else you wouldn't be here talking about it
3.you completely turned him down by saying NO!
4.you should have followed it with a but or something such as but I am willing to..... whatever you're willing to do or have between the 2 of you
5.he might have been confused or pissed when you seen him or he just plain don't wanna be with you no more I don't know everything for sure. because this is a cenario I am not caught up on the little details so go get em and call him yours. he likes you or he wouldn't have asked asked you that question in the first place so talk to him yourself and ask him everything you are tryin to ask us on here to get a better answer.
2007-11-29 22:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are sending the wrong signals honey. You are a beautiful woman and that alone is intimidating. Give him a smile and a friendly hello if you are interested in this guy. He thinks you are not interested in him and is hoping this will change. You don't always have to be too busy. set aside a little time for some communication or you will lose this race. As far as he is concerned he is rejected. So make a positive move toward him and he will respond in a positive way.
2007-11-29 22:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some girls (not you) who actually use this "I'm not ready" as a way of rejection, not honest but it's not harsh either.
So, when you say such a thing, you and only you knows the truth, others could only second guess.
He felt rejected, many guys would felt rejected, I think I would to had I been in his shoes. Simply because there's always a possibility of that reason being use to reject someone. And we don't know, no one can tell, only you knows it.
Maybe he got rejected that way before in the past?
And yeah, he hasn;t move on yet. he'll stop avoiding you once he's moved on
2007-11-29 22:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually to be honest you kinda did reject him, you didn't say that you didn't like him personally, but you did say that you were not ready to date...which in his mind he probably saw it as you blowing him off....and you never told him whether you liked him or not....so now for him things are weird between you two, because males do have very vulnerable egos he can't face you now that he has been dissed.
2007-11-29 22:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm ...He got ur answer, U wasnt ready for a relationship yet..So he has moved on ..why would he date a gurl who doesnt wanna settle down...why would he even talk to you cause you are the one who sorta rejected him unintentionally. If you want him back then stop playing games & talk to him about your feeling, o/w get over it.
2007-11-29 22:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by ¶-ÑØ FÈÅR ÑØ §URRÈÑÐÈR-¶™ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have some girlfriends you could be talking to about this with... I'm mean really who is going to sit here and read all this... Sorry but I think you're wasting your time typing all this out.
2007-11-29 22:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~hαlo~ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only way your going to find out for sure is to ask him. He may just be embarassed, if your interested why don't you ask him out and take the pressure off of him.
2007-11-29 22:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Tina S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think hes a voiding you but if you try to break the ice just try to talk or bump in to him by accident.matey. Good Luck.
2007-11-29 22:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG lets break this down because your a little slow... HE ASKED YOU IF YOU WERE AVAILABLE AND YOU SAID NO. which means that you blew your chance he does not want to even look at your face because you rejected him .after you knew that he liked you... retard....
Tee Hee to Balls W
2007-11-29 22:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by Pepperpaige 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, do you talk as much as you write?
2007-11-29 22:45:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋