I am happy with my wife, but here lately we are having problems!!!!! She is having alot of problems with work at the time, and I can't seem too make her happy no matter what I try, any advice??????
2007-11-29 14:36:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't try and "fix" it for her, she just wants someone to listen to her. If you try to tell her what to do it will only make her mad. Just be sympathetic and let her know that no matter how bad things get at work there is always someone at home that loves her and with whom she can talk.
2007-11-29 14:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Maybe she should think about getting a different job. She is likely stressed about it and is afraid to get another job. Either it is great money or you need every one of her paychecks. Talk to her and see if you can't figure out a way for her to get a different job. Another thing...if she has gained some weight and you mentioned it, that is the real problem. There is nothing that turns off a woman to a man quicker than he he makes a comment about her weight.
2007-11-29 22:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Julie H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Comfort her and remind her to relax. To enjoy the priceless things in live. I'm sure you make her happy but she's just not showing any kind of appreciation right now. Be patient and I'm sure she'll come around. Have you thought of going to church? This usually helps to remind us that we need to be thankful of certain things in our lives and not let other stuff take the best of us. Good luck!
2007-11-29 22:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by estachicalatina :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do things to make life at home a lot easier so she can keep her focus on making things better at work. Be supportive and tell her you are there if she needs anything.
2007-11-29 22:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by heidi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a romantic restaurant, wine and dine her and then make her a nice hot relaxing bubble bath, with candles and soothing music. Help her take her mind off of things. She will love it.
2007-11-29 22:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by zoey1176 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. It will pass. Support and love her until things get better at work.
Good luck.
2007-11-29 22:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her be maybe she just needs a breather from things don't take it personally.... shell come around she knows you love her shes just stressed..
2007-11-29 22:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by just bored 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know we women get crazy when we get stressed , try to get her relaxed maybe make her dinner or a nice warm bath with candles when she gets home from work.
2007-11-29 23:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out what the problems are and see if you can help her sort it out.
2007-11-29 23:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just listen to her and do small things to help her out around the house or to de-stress her abit.
sometimes its the small things that count.
2007-11-29 22:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by xwtf_zombiex 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋