This year i lost my baby cousin because he was born 4-5 months early, i lost my best friend to a shooting that had happen right in front of my on house, he wasn't suppose to be there,and I also lost my uncle 10days before halloween. he past because of an achool abuse. How do i get over all of this?!
2007-11-29 14:27:56 · 16 answers · asked by ~*Yo$hI*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry for your losses. I would suggest talking about it to either family or friends. Whoever is comfortable talking. If not you might want to consider a counselor. Talking about it usually helps a lot. Those people will never be forgotten and unfortunately you can't bring them back.It's not going to get better over night but time does heel all wounds.
2007-11-29 14:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You accept that life is often not fair. You comfort those who are hurting as much as you are and take comfort from the fact that they are comforting you. If you are in a bad neighborhood, you get the best education you can and get yourself out of it and vow that you will never try to drown your pain in alcohol because you already know it only leads to the kind of pain that you are now experiencing.
2007-11-29 22:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if all I am very sorry for all of your losses!! no one really knows how you feel because everyone feels differently... You need to let yourself heal with time, just remember all of the great times that you had with these people and know that they are in a better place. As much as you wish that they were with you!!!
2007-11-29 22:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by Britteni F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my family, we call it being called home and that we will be together again when it's our time to be called home. In the meantime, we are to carry on in memory of them and in honor of them. For us, it's easier for us to go ahead a set a place at the table to represent those who, for whatever reason, can't be with us. And we watch for the little things that tell us that they haven't left our hearts. A friend of mine lost her Mother. I shared with her this little belief of my family's in an effort to give her comfort. At her mother's funeral, there was a wasp that caught her attention. She watched the wasp buzz around then come to her, then it went to the special flower she chose to adorn the coffin from just her. It stayed at her flower. She thought how odd that was until she remembered a wasp broche (pin) her Mom used to wear and then just knew in her heart that her Mom was telling her that she would be fine now. Her Mother had alzheimer's and it was a difficult path for my friend to walk not knowing if her Mom knew who she was or would remember her. Many blessings and be brave. They are always apart of you.
2007-11-29 22:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Carol T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel lucky it was not you.. there is so much violence in the world and you were not a victim.... you can put a stop to it... (or at least make people aware) you are here for a reason.... ( p.s. i am not religious so i wont give you some crap about how jesus has a plan for you) im sure it is hard for you now, i am really sorry for your losses but you have to keep moovin on!!!!
2007-11-29 22:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're religious, pray.
or you can do What I do, and write. Write anything, everything, how you're feeling, what happened, and anything you want.
Talk to your other close friends, talking to them and letting them onfine in you will make you closer and help you both.
and just remember that you're not alone. there are probably plenty of people who love you and want to help you.
Prayers and Best Wishes
2007-11-29 22:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by Aly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like God is trying to get your attention. If you humble yourself and ask Jesus into your life I believe you will find God turns tragedy into something that will glorify His name.
Satan wants you to despair, he laughs at your troubles and blames God. God wants to comfort and show His love, but you have to let Him.
2007-11-29 22:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. well...that's pretty harsh to go through all of this. dam. *still speechless* hmmmm. how bout, you write about how you feel on all of this. getting your feelings out might really help. this coming from a 13-year-old might not help but it always helps me. it helped wen i lost my only grandpa i had left. maybe it'll work for you. good luck.
2007-11-29 22:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by jasmine. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank god for everyday you had with them and the memories you created. Never forget them and cherish the relationships you still have.
2007-11-29 22:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God to help you he is the only who can I am so sorry for your lose may God bless and keep you
2007-11-29 22:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋