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should I tell my husband his brother said that my husband would not believe me and I'm really hurt inside what should I do about this

2007-11-29 14:24:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

32 answers

I also think this is some bs story. Sorry not to believe ya.

2007-11-29 17:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by The Melster 2 · 2 0

Let me see now....a man forced you into a room and physically and sexually assaulted you, without your permission, and you are asking us what you should do?
You haven't told your husband yet. WHY?
Is it because, and I am only asking here...not accusing, that you didn't really put up much of a fight and later decided that you had been raped so that if anyone found out about what happened they couldn't blame you in any way. ? ONLY ASKING REMEMBER!
If this was as serious as you make it out tobe don't you think you would have done something about this. If someone did that to me i would scream bloody murder and make the greatest of efforts to have their balls for bookends.
If I was your husband the first thing I would say would be, "WHAT?" followed by "This happened several days ago....why didn't you say something...why did you wait until now?" Your response might be something like "Well, I didn't want to hurt you dear!" or something lame like that.
If this is as serious as you make it out to be then....YOU NEED TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT BECAUSE IT WILL COME BACK TO HAUNT YOU IF YOU DON'T ....

2007-11-29 14:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Yner 3 · 2 0

What?? If your husband was in the other room, you could have screamed or thrown stuff around the room, as to get his attention. I'm a woman too, but sorry, IF this really happened and you don't tell AND PROSECUTE, then you perpetuate the stereo type of women being weak. You were a dumb*** for not telling righ then, don't be any dumber by keeping quiet.

2007-11-29 14:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle B 2 · 2 0

Ok your brother in law raped you right. First rape is a crime so report it. Go to the hospital and get checked and make a report with the police. Your husband should not have a problem with it being his brother. If he loves you and trust you he will support you with this men protect whom they love. Do the right thing. God Bless

2007-11-29 14:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by mimi 3 · 0 0

Yes you should tell your husband, then tell the police. If your husband doesn't believe you, then not only will you need counseling for the rape, but also for the lack of trust in your marriage. I wish you the best!

2007-11-29 14:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by azflower25 2 · 0 0

Yeah, definitely - call the police; they don't just wink and smile at this stuff. It matters little whether your husband believes you or not. The brother just said that so you wouldn't tell your husband. And stay away from him.

2007-11-29 14:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bill F 5 · 0 0

Not only should you tell your husband, and like RIGHT NOW. But you should also contact the police. If the police won't do anything, at least the beat down he gets from your husband will work for the moment.............

2007-11-29 14:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0 0

OMG !!! When was this?? is there still physical evidence?? if there is, call the police, theres no way your husband wont believe you!! Why didnt you scream???How were you able to pull together and your husband not notice???

2007-11-29 14:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by suehellen 3 · 0 0

Agree with many above. It's hard to believe this allegation based on the Asker's previous posts over the last few days.

However, if true...you need to tell hubby and report it to the authorities immediately.

2007-11-29 17:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 0 0

I swear you got the best drama. Now, I know for fact that your husband won't believe you and even if he did he'll always doubt that.
Its hard to say, I don't know if I'd call the police, maybe I'd try to make justice on my own.

2007-11-29 14:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by nomorecapri 5 · 1 0

whats a "husband brother house"?
Is it like a cult or something?
And it must have been an awfully quiet rape.
Either way get the evidence and call the cops

2007-11-29 14:37:26 · answer #11 · answered by trying to do good 2 · 1 0

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