I'm a teenage guy in highschool and there's a 13 year old boy I know who's been acting unusual around me. For a while, he's been coming up to me, poking me, tripping me, pulling pranks on me, bumping into me and telling me random, stupid jokes about movies, tv shows, sex and other random things. He would act like just a normal immature kid his age most of the time, until once he came up to me and asked me if I masturbated, then if I've ever orgasmed before. At first, I laughed it off and figured it was a joke. I thought this at first, but then he asked me two more times later. Afterwards, he's tried taking subtle gropes at my back, pelvis and chest, and I can't tell if he's 'feeling' me or if they're just accidents that I'm being too concious about. Is this kid gay? Is it just a phase? Is he just curious? Does he have some kind of crush on me? How can I tell? What should I do about it? Am I just freaking out about nothing? What should I do?
2007-11-29 14:00:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's a puberty thing i'm sure. It's not unusual at that age to be curious about other boys privates and how they work. It does not necessarily mean he's gay or into you he's probably just curious. Don't worry about unless he tells you otherwise.
2007-11-29 14:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by True Blue 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How well do you know him? If it is fairly well then try sitting him down and having a little heart to heart. Maybe its nothing...but maybe he has a crush on you. It sounds like you are a bit older and uninterested (?)...so, just tell him that it is okay if he is gay, and you are willing to be there to talk, but are not interested in any kind of relationship. Maybe he is gay or bi or wondering...if any of those are the case he is probably having a hard time right now....so just be compassionate. And dont freak out :)
2007-11-29 14:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A 13-year-old boy kid who behaves in such a sexualized manner has perhaps been treated in sexual ways himself. There is a significant risk that you're talking to a kid who's been molested or otherwise treated inappropriately. Whether or not he is gay is immaterial. He's acting out in strongly suggestive ways, and this could easily be a call for help.
Sorry to add to your worries. I suggest you tell a teacher or your parents about this and see if they can either talk with the boy or notify the Child Protective Services in your area.
2007-11-29 14:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be hot for you. Thats one too many touchy feely's to be accidental. Next time he asks about you masturbating, say yeah, i did it last night & made a right mess. Watch his reaction, he may in fact suggest you do it together which is a good sign.
Be aware of when he is around (be suptle of course) & try to ascertain how he is "groping" you eg can you see it as an accident or his he going out of his way to feel you up?
2007-11-29 14:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds as though this guy has a crush on you! but dont be freaked out, because not that big of a deal. be flattered, take it as a compliment. if you arent interested in him, tell him to stop getting all touchy feely with him, he will understand. but if you are attracted to him, he sounds like he likes you, so go get him! might as well try it out, while you have the chance.
anyway, i think im right, but all people show how they like you differently, and every gay person is different. not all gays are very sensitive about everything, some are. if you fell its in your place to ask him if hes gay, ask him, because if its your gut feeling, usually they arent wrong. anyway, good luck figuring this guy out, and hope he understands.
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2016-10-25 05:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trouble here might be that if you go along with this and end up with intimate knowledge of each others sex organs, this knowledge won't stay a secret as far as this kid is concerned.
2007-11-29 14:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what i acted like with a close friend of mine when we were that age.He did the same thing back. I am sure it is harmless.Nothing to worry about.
...Oh did I mention that me and that friend ended up sleeping with each other a couple times....don't know if thats important.
2007-11-29 14:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question are you interest in him. If not make that clear to him.
2007-11-29 14:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by scruff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was your age i would break his jaw but times have changed tell him to stay away or you'll have him arrested for sexual harassment
2007-11-30 02:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by kp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋