I am in High School and I am gay and I am out too...but..Every openly gay guy in my school hangs out in this little group and they all call me ugly and worthless and totally undesirable...No I am not OK becuase everytime I ask out a gay guy out they call me ugly and tell me to die..HAve you seen a pic of me???I do not look like a hot porn star???Who in heck wold want me if all the other gays out there just want to be with a hot porn star???
I wish I was a hot gay porn star so that I can get my guy...The gay community is so shallow and superfical..I wish I was a gay porn star so that I can get all of the sex and love and admiration that I want..No one wants me being a nerd..No gay man..Why was I even made gay if I did not have the body to get the right guy?????It is like life put me up to be miserable and ot lonley for the rest of my life...The only way I can get gay love is by paying for it..
2007-11-29 12:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The problem is, it sounds like YOU keep going for the same "porn star" guys... Remember, in High School, the so-called "hot" guys, are used to being chased after, so they reject people easily. If your going after guys that would reject you based on looks, then you must only be going after THEM because of looks, because it sounds like they have no substance... Look for people of substance. Looks of course mean something to everyone, but you could find the hottest guy, and he could get his face ripped off in a car accident tomorrow and be ugly. Would you then reject him? Looks fade, NOBODY is beautiful forever. You are looking for love, in all the wrong places. Start trying to get to know people before you try asking them out. You'll find someone who isn't a shallow reject, hung up on arm candy, and all the boys that reject you will either get fat and ugly in their 40's, be very lonely, or become meth addicts, and will be selling themselves to stay under 50 lbs. ;)
2007-11-29 12:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by spinn_doktor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly, I have the same problem. I gave up years ago. I don't bother asking anyone out anymore. There are plenty of people who will spend an evening with you if there is something you have that they want.....usually $$$, but sometimes it is something else.
2007-11-29 12:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey - the gay lifestyle can't be for everyone. Maybe you should reconsider.
2007-11-29 12:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Veritatis 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
righhhhhhhhht and once again no picture link
2007-11-29 12:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋