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a girl on myspace who is black, accused me of being racist because i told her i have no black friends or there is nobody black in my family.
why would i get called racist for telling the truth? what is her problem?
how can i react to this weird girl without losing my rag and saying something i regret?

she said '' have i ever had any black friends or asian friends, ever ? ''
and i said '' No ''.
then she accuses me of being racist....so why did she even bother to contact me through myspace in the first place....why pick me out?

if i did get angry and frustrated with her....everyone would attack me and accuse me of being racism so i cannot win.

what do i do?

2007-11-29 10:17:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

deadalou. : what are you talking about ? didnt understand what your saying. doesnt relate to what im saying

2007-11-29 11:04:04 · update #1

am sorry smile ididnt meant plz :- i no theres nothing wrong with me. you didnt answer the question.

2007-11-29 11:07:48 · update #2

am sorry smile ididnt meant plz :- i no theres nothing wrong with me. you didnt answer the question.

2007-11-29 11:08:17 · update #3

am sorry smile ididnt meant plz :- i no theres nothing wrong with me. you didnt answer the question.

2007-11-29 11:08:30 · update #4

am sorry smile ididnt meant plz :- i no theres nothing wrong with me. you didnt answer the question.

2007-11-29 11:08:40 · update #5

8 answers

Do nothing, it's pretty obvious that her mind is fixed on "race", but not yours. You did nor said nothing wrong.

2007-11-29 10:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Millie 7 · 1 0

Based on the information provided she sounds ignorant. You can talk to her but it would be pointless and a waste of your time. If that is all you said and nothing more then she might have other issues. I do not understand why you would want to address someone who is obviously not in touch with reality.

As far as why she picked you out...only she can tell you that...but don't ask. People sometimes do not make sense, it is not your job to figure it out. Block her and move on.

2007-11-30 18:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by 사파이어 4 · 0 0

What do you have a problem with blacks??? What did they ever do to you?

No, sike. Just joking with you. ;-) Don't let it get to you. Some people are just like that. I think it has to do with THEM. I would just stop talking to her. You were being honest and I don't see the harm in that. Self examination is good but don't beat yourself up over it. You know, Sherif, other people have "issues" too and come from a different place then you do. Neither right nor wrong - just different.

2007-11-29 22:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa2000 3 · 0 0

I have a black friend who don't like blacks, now is he being racist? Because you don't have black or Asian friends may mean you run in different circles. I have black friends but don't Asian. I know Asians but we do not do things together and if you are wondering I do have black family members, I love them almost as much as I do my great niece.

2007-11-29 18:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 0 0

That girl has the problem not you.
If she says anything else about it, just tell her that you don`t know any black kids or asians kids.
That you were trying to make friends with her and
she `s black, but she had to start passing judgement before a friendship could ever begin.

2007-11-29 18:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Scorpian S 4 · 2 0

I have non-Asian family members (related!) and I hate them as much as I do my Asian ones. You're not racist and you know that. Why would you waste your time telling her.

2007-11-29 18:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

You're not a racist, don't take the bait.

2007-11-29 18:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

nothing wrong with u ... forgit about her .... and i dont think if somon hear about that conversation well say u r raciest...

2007-11-29 19:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by no english speak :o) 3 · 1 1

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