how many of u out there in cyber space can honestly say your happily married, and would your mate also say the same thing? im really curious about how many people are truely happy they got married? IF u can say yes to happily married ..whats the secret for the rest of us not to lucky people?
2007-11-29 10:15:53 · 32 answers · asked by lisa baby... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm very happily married.
The secret to marriage is not love, sorry to say. The secret to marriage is character. Both partners have to have character.
2007-11-29 10:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah P 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I can honestly say I am very, very happily married and I know my husband would say the same. We dont' have any big secret. Our success is completely the fact that we are best friends. Honestly, there is no one I'd rather spend time with. We enjoy much of the same things, we love coming home at the end of the day and sharing what happened, gossiping about others, etc. We just enjoy eachother's company.
2007-11-29 12:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jill C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am happily married, although a little worried. Hubby is in jail for domestic violence for freaking out and shoving me out of the car. No, it was not moving. He was in the Army and a Cop, so it may be PTSD. We don't fight as much as the norm, we have the same values, etc. I guess happiness truly isn't getting everything you want all the time. He's the joy of my life, so count your blessings. Imagine what I'm going through now. And yes, my hubby would say that he's happy too. We're going to make it past this thing. Hang in there.
2007-11-29 11:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I happily married? Overall yes absolutely. Do i have times where i wish i wasn't in times of arguments and fights with my spouse? Yes as well.
and THAT is the secret to a happy marriage. To assume that two completely different people one male & one female will live happily ever after without ever fighting, arguing or reconsidering their choice is wrong and a lie. What makes my marriage happy is that we go through things and we learn from it, we continue to discover about each other in good but mostly in bad times. A happy marriage is when you stick with your loved one regardless of the situation and you find ways to work on issues instead of being stuborn and finding divirce to be the easy way out.
2007-11-29 10:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by caliguy_30 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am very happily married. It takes the two of you both understanding the other. Being kind and considerate. Loving and living together on the same page. But you do have to find the right person.
2007-11-29 10:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet V 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can say that I am happily married and I know my Husband's happy with me to...The secret of having a happy and contented married life is to always have an open and honest communication and respect and respect with each other.If you can do these things, sure you'll have a successful married.
2007-11-29 10:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happily married but sometimes things get rough in your marriage or things change and maybe not for the better but if you love the person then you try to make things work
2007-11-29 12:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Hubby & I are very happily married.....second marriage for both, we 'clicked' from the first day....our first marriages (both difficult and heartbreaking) taught us never sweat the small stuff, never take each other for granted, and that Love goes hand in hand with Understanding,Respect, Friendship, Consideration, Compassion, and Fidelity/Loyality,and Humour. I married my best friend, he tells me the same...even if we weren't in love we genuine like the other person, flaws ,quirks and all......we 'woo' each other every single day & night and neither of us have to think about doing it....it's as natural as breathing......I guess we're one of the lucky one's who found the flip side of the coin we're part of.....
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I disagree filthy_c...maybe a few years ago I woudda agreed with ya....but not anymore........
2007-11-29 10:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by The Original GarnetGlitter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess I'm not to happily married yet.lol But the grass always looks good of every fence,so kept up. lol But I know even if one goes to that yard it has up keep. So since I know Just about all my wife's faults now ,why quit to have to start all over again learning how to deal with someone Else's faults. lol so the longer i stay In this yard and keep up with it the more beautiful it becomes. to say no one has troubles in marriage is lying.
2007-11-29 10:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by shadow of life. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are days I can trully say I am happy to be married. There are days I can trully say I am not happily married. Marriage has its ups and downs you just have to work on it. You need to say sorry when you are wrong and you need to accept his apology when he is wrong (not saying cheating or being abusive). I am talking about stupid arguements over the trash not being taken out. You have to make each other feel special and do things for each other.
2007-11-29 10:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋