Why are Black Men rejecting there own women to be with other races?

Question

I do kind of feel it is becoming a sort of a "trend." It's happening way more now than ever ( yes I know becuase society is more expecting blah blah blah) but i've heard black men say that they feel black women are too assertive, loud, brash etc. they get this stereotypical thing in their head about black women, and just automatically most of the time don’t give them a chance or the time of day. So in a way some men are rejecting black women.

Answer 1

Tameka,
If I love a man who happens to be asian,hispanic or white am I rejecting black men? No. It is because the one I love happens to be a different race. It is more acceptable today for dating outside of our races. It's a good thing, why not?
I am not a supremist. No one is rejecting me, I make the choices in my life. I suggest you get a more possitive outlook on the issue. I get what you are saying but you have made it into something it is not. Plenty of black men want to date and marry black ladies. Those that do not are not betraying us either, they are doing what is best for them. (Like anyone else) Please try to see it differently because this is not about to change. You seem like an intelligent person so I'm sure you'll figure it out. I hope we both find love in our lives with whoever it will be.

Answer 2

I am sorry. This has been going on for a very long time now. I noticed it back in the mid 70's. I was in the service then. The whilte girls were all out on 'dates' with mostly black guys and the black women were back in the baracks preparing for the next day. I thought WOW, these are some of the world's most beautiful women and the dumb men didn't ask them out!?! Well, heads up. Today those black women are doctor's and lawyers and 'those white women' ... well they aren't. What bothers me today, as a white grandmother, is the young white women aren't 'dating' the good black men any more, they are dating the under class, getto talking, monsters who are heading for prison. So, it's looking better, IMO, for the black women of today, then back in my day. But, they are doing it, IMO, for the same reasons: Too shock their parents and grandparents. As I see it, the good church going black man of today is looking for that good black woman. Some days I just want to go out and start knocking heads and not quit till I get shot.

Answer 3

Every Black man in my family is with a Black woman. And believe me, I come from a very large family.

And even if that was the case, I am engaged to a wonderful Hispanic man and could care less whether Black men were "rejecting" me or not.

Answer 4

I don't know because if their dads thought the same stupid logic they did then these black men wouldn't exist! I don't know what their problems are talking trash about black women.

Answer 5

Only a few black guys at my school do that...i've never really seen a grown up interacial couple with adults i have sometimes but not like every singly day like every black guy dates outside his race.. u know?....

Answer 6

I didn't know that black men owned any women.

Answer 7

I have noticed that once a black men makes it big, he hooks up or marries a white woman or another mix. Look at most of the big time sports figures, celebrities, etc............ I ask myself the same question.

Answer 8

I don't think their 'rejecting' balck women. Interracial relationships are just becoming more common and you seem to be noticing.

Answer 9

Who cares? I reject black men all the time. I do NOT want to be with some stupid, ignorant, man with no education and no job that sits around on his *** all day smoking weed and watching BET. (not all but most) So I really don't care who black men date. Because it will never be me.

Answer 10

Yes,I think most prefer traditional women.