2007-11-29 07:46:56 · 24 answers · asked by ROC_1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You kinda have to explain what you mean by "way kinkier". If it's something like you want it doggystyle but he would rather do missionary, then you need to have one of his guy friends slap the crap out of him. If it's a matter of you wanting to shove things up his bum, then perhaps you need to tone it down.
2007-11-29 08:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean? Most guys like doing new things! Is he shy? You might need to teach him how to be kinky. Maybe keep some stilettos under the bed & walk around with them on when you are in the mood. Add a short skirt w/ no undies & bend over in front of him. Maybe he'll get kinkier w/ a little tease.
2007-11-29 15:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him and see if he will meet you half way on your kinkiness. I am the same way in that I am way kinkier than my wife. We have talked and she is making attempts, and she would be successful if she would quit wondering what other people would think if they found out. Everyone has a little "inner freak" in them and it is healthy to talk about and indulge in it every once in a while. Sometimes, if you are lucky, you find someone with the same inner freak and you can just get as kinky as you want to be. Good luck
2007-11-29 15:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinkier than my wife. She is more into getting what she wants than making sure that I'm satisfied. I find my sex life with her dissatifying, and a total lack of foreplay. Plus, not often enough. About once every two weeks.
I hate it and considered finding me girlfriend on the side. I know it's wrong but I get really horny.
2007-11-29 15:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Keeper 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Explore with him if he's willing....if he's not then I don't know what to tell you. My X husband couldn't accept my kinky side and chose to put me down for it after at least enjoying a couple orgasms while participating. I couldn't accept having such a closed minded, abusive dick head. We went our separate ways.
heheheheeee....kinkometer! Love it! I use mine all the time now...no worse feeling than finding out the person you love thinks you are a weirdo for enjoying a little freaky deaky.
2007-11-29 16:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go wild on him.... kinkier than you really are.... then taming back to where you're normally at will seem like a good thing, lol
2007-11-29 16:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by f*ck yahoo, i'm doing google 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come down to his level....be patient....baby steps....overtime he will get more comfortable and confident with himself sexually....its all about trust and comfort.....once that is achieved he will open up....it can be overwhelming for a man if his lover is more advanced then him....teach him....it will be fun
2007-11-29 15:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Gordito 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm way kinkier than my wife.....What should I do????
2007-11-30 00:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by crankydad_9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times men are kinky and don't realize it! You have to show him how much fun it is!
2007-11-29 15:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by Rach 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
mine is the same way, he doesnt want to do anything different, it suck's i have tried alot of differnt things, like sexy outfits, takein control, but it doesnt work for mine, i even talked to him about it and he doesnt want to change! good luck
2007-11-29 15:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by #4 due may 29th 2009 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋