ok i am 13 and i am freakin out i just today during school started my proiod and i dont know how to tell my mom, it hurts sooooooooo bad and i bawl my eyes out everytime i go to the bathroom pleeeeze help me i dont know how to tell my mom !!!!
2007-11-29 07:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by Alexiiiiis 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
awwwwwwwwwwww honey, lol there is nothing 2 be scared about. Ur mom is a girl 2 and can help u. Just say mom I need 2 talk 2 u and ask if u can talk in private. Or write her a note. U might be having cramps that's why u hurt so much. I'm 16 been there and told my mom.
2007-11-29 07:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I got mine when I was 10 and had NO CLUE what was going on with me. I think my mom was expecting me to be a bit older before having the "talk" with me. That day I went to the bathroom (thank god I was home) and there it was in my undies. I freaked and called for my mom... She came in and smiled and said, "jump in the shower and I'll be right back", I was like, "what the?"... She came back in with pads and we sat in the bathroom for a while talking about what was going on. It was a good bonding moment.
Just talk to her. Everything will be alright!
2007-11-29 16:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Shenva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom shouldn't be upset about this. Everything is okay - trust me! You're probably just freaking out when you go to the bathroom, but I doubt there's anything physically wrong. So, don't worry!
No joke, but when I told my mom that I had my first period, she took me out to dinner. We had a nice "girl time" together. It's nothing to stress over!
2007-11-29 15:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by Pooty Pootwell 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, its perfectly normal to have your period. Your mom will help you choose either pads or tampons (I'd go with pads first), and any other fears and queations you have. The pain is most likely where you are cramping, thats normal too. Don't be afraid to tell your mom, it just means you are growing up!
2007-11-29 15:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by raeoflight25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not a big deal even though it feels like it right now. Your mom has been there too, she's gotten hers and had to tell her mom. You just go up to her and ask her if you can talk when no one is around adn you let her know.
after all someone has to buy you pads ;-)
2007-11-29 15:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your mom is a woman so she has one too. It's not a big deal. I don't know why you're afraid to tell your mom. She can help you by buying you medicine that will help with your cramping. It's not like you've contracted a disease or anything, you're jus tgoing through a normal stage in development.
2007-11-29 15:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just relax and tell her because your only gonna be hurting more the more you wait to tell your mom. It's better being up front with her and to try to stop the pain. Best wishes.
2007-11-29 15:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi at first i found it hard to tell my mum that i had started if you are in the house with your mum sit dowh and say mum i av started pleaz help dont be scared every girl has a period i started when i was 11.
p.s dont be scared
2007-11-29 15:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a girl, too. It's okay. Just say, "Mom, I started my period today." She'll take it from there. You are not alone.
2007-11-29 15:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and tell her "mom I got my period" that's all you have to say. Take a deep breath and relax.
2007-11-29 15:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by keep your head up 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋