why is it when a black girl is with a white guy everyone just stares and says things.. i hate it.. like im biracial and i know that doesnt matter it bugs me.. majority of my friends are white (i seem to relate to that side more) and my boyfriend is white and when its just the two of us out we always get the stares.. we dont care we do our own thing.. but what are they thinking when they stare at us just curious?? im not gonna dump him or whatever i love him so it doesnt matter.. im just curious so is he !
2007-11-29 07:22:25 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Depends on how fine she is
If she is cute, I think "Man, she is cute"
If she is ugly, I think "Dang, she is ugly"
Not much else is necessary
2007-11-29 07:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 1⤋
Well, u shouldn't say u seem to relate to ur white side more, what about ur Black side??? U should have been taught to embrace both sides of ur ethnicity, not just the White side. It's rare to see a Black girl with a white guy, in society it's not accepted as much as a Black man with a white woman is. Most common couples seem to be black man/white woman. I will admit, i do stare at those couples, but only for a few seconds. I stare more at Black women with white men. I don't approve of those relationships, but i hate when Black men disrespect black women who date white men, when they have a white woman or a non-black woman on their arms.
2007-12-02 14:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Claudette Leon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No matter who you are with people will look even if you are by your self.
You can not imagine what people are thinking or why they are looking.
In fact I have found take the thoughts I have about anything and present the thoughts to different people and you will get as many responses as people.
I am always amazed at the despicable thoughts of others thought I would never have thought of myself.
It is a waste of time to concern yourself with how other people think. You have no control over these things.
2007-11-29 07:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by granny_sp 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well since i dont see it that much, im like whoa. I know i got more stares in Cali than here in Texas. If you are close to a military base you see it more. I usually dont notice if me and my wife are out and someone stares and if my wife points it out i tell her its cause you are sexy and the mad at me. Dont worry about other people my family is multiracial my stepdad is Black, my father inlaws new wife is White, my stepmom is Asian, my brothers gf is biracial. So we are a melting pot and we have multiracial/ cultural friends. Good Luck to you and your man.
"Racism is an illness R U sick?"
2007-11-29 10:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Devil Doc 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because racism in America is out of control and dummies cannot tell the difference between television and real life. They see the white media plaster white this and white that, and Black guys with white women so then stupid people think this is the way they are supposed to act! They have no sense of reality and leading instead of following.
Check out this site. Better watch yourself, "Black girl":
http://www.splcenter.org/intel/map/hate.jsp
2007-11-29 07:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's just because you're gorgeous and the guys are thinking you lucky chap, I wish I could get that lucky and he's gorgeous so the girl's are thinking I wish I could find a bloke as sexy as him, and I wish I was a gorgeous as her so I could find a bloke like him etc etc as us girl's think much more than blokes! People stare at each other for all sorts or reasons and unless you are about to go ask every one of them why they're doing it, you're probably never going to know what they're really staring for.
2007-11-29 07:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you love each other and are happy then other peoples opinions don't matter and you should not even care what other people think. Everybody has the right to their own opinion but in the end it doesn't matter because it doesn't concern them to begin with.
Just continue and be happy. Best of luck!
2007-11-29 07:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i dont think anything either ! im in a relationship with an indian and im white, we definitely get the stares but mainly from indians...who's staring at you more, the white people? or people in general....i think your own kind will look regardless if they agree or disagree...but i think when 2 colors are together it looks beautiful, the contrast is amazing !!!
2007-11-30 06:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the same thing that I think when i see a white woman with a black man: If they're in love, good for them! If they're just going together to make a statement, they may be sorry later.
2007-11-29 07:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by aida 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I just see two people that are a couple. If you have found someone who loves you, what difference does skin color make??
People stare maybe because they aren't educated. They may be racist. Maybe they just crawled out of a cave & never saw a couple like you....who knows?
You found someone to share your life with. You love & respect your boyfriend, right? Don't let someone else's ignorance bother you.
Peace.
2007-11-29 07:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
People are weird, I live in Canada and think nothing of black or white or asian, it just doesn't matter. The people who stare at you are prbably trailertrash thinkers so be proud and I'm glad you and your boyfriend have a strong relationship. Good for you both. Stay strong.
2007-11-29 07:28:10 · answer #11 · answered by Pearl N 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋