Hi. Em my best friend is a guy and hes really in love with me. I love him too but not as much as he loves me. Its great. Im happy with that. He recently introduced me to his best guy friend gavin and we got off to a good start. We've been getting on really well. He told me we were friends staraight away. The problem is i think im starting to fall for gavin. I dont know if he feels the same and i can't ask any of their mates because gavin and paddy would find out and it would break paddys heart if he knew i liked gavin. Ive known paddy for 6 months and gavin for 3 weeks. Its starting to get difficult. Please help me. Thank you
2007-11-29 06:31:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No my best friend name is paddy. Paddy and gavin are so close to each other they are like brothers. Its really difficult
2007-11-29 06:40:40 · update #1
Erm i think im the only girl for paddy because he has already asked me to marry him in 15 years time when we are both 28. We are only 15 and 16 though and he does mean it believe me. He always says it and he always tells me how much he loves me and how beautiful i am. Its really hurting me
2007-11-29 06:49:18 · update #2
i am in the same situation my best guy friend likes me but i like his best guy friend and they r like brothers but i have not done anything yet and dont listen to people when they say ur mean cause ur not just go out with the guy u truly luv and it should be fine =]
2007-11-29 06:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by skater chick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, hon, ya gotta think about how much would hurt poor Paddy. Then, you would ruin his friendship with Gavin. Then, you would have to live with your decision. All that considered, you'd mess up two lives and your own. Keep cool. Stick with Paddy. Gavin may not be the right guy for you.
2007-11-29 06:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are really that close you need to keep your feelings to your self, a guy will only get mad at you regardless if his friend goes for it or not and more than likely Gavin knows Paddy's feelings for you so either he will hit it and split or push you away and avoid you.
Been there done all of that and now I don't speak to any of those guys really.
2007-11-29 06:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alrite you are definatley in a hard situation but this is what you need to do. First off you need to tell Em, it's not fair for him. He's crazy over you, and you need to be honest with him. If gavin likes you too, give it sometime between the two of you...you don't want to hurt Em. If he doesn't like you, don't worry about...you will find a guy one day that you're crazy for and he's crazy about you.
Good luck!
2007-11-29 06:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be kind of wrong to go for gavin when you just met him because it might just be infatuation. Don't let go of a good, long-lasting relationship for a little crush.
2007-11-29 06:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no gurantee that Gavin likes you... you have to let the guy make the first move.
2007-11-29 06:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST REMEMBER THE LIFE LONG SAYING OF MEN. BROS BEFORE HOES. NOW KNOWING THAT, DO YOU REALLY WANT TO RISK LOSING YOUR BEST FRIEND AND A NEW GOOD FRIEND?? IF THE SITUATION IS EVN MAKING YOU QUESTION WHTHER ITS RIGHT OR WRONG, THERE IS YOUR ANSWER RIGHT THERE. GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND TRY NOT TO GET YOURSELF STUCK IN SOMETHING YOU DONT WANT TO BE IN. SOUNDS TO ME LIKE NOTHING BUT A LARGE COMPLICATION!! TAKE CARE!!
2007-11-29 06:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by joo_0420 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to hook your best friend up with a girlfriend, that way your best friends friend can be your boyfriend, while your best friend and girlfriend can be friends. If that friendship don,t work you can be your best friends girlfriend and your best Friends Friend can be your friends boyfriend! There's plenty of love to go around! scratch all that.....become a nun!
2007-11-29 06:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one YOU truely want
2007-11-29 06:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Jacob Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE MEAN
2007-11-29 06:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by kirsty l 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋