in your 'crew' or group of friends, is there someone that everyone hates or feels like telling him to shut the hell up and go away?
we have one.. he can be a nice guy but oh my god.. he's so weird, he keeps touching people, like he came up to me and he's always puting his hand on my arm or shoulder then like slides it down...
ugh.. he does it to us all and if me and my missus are walking out of school to go to lunch in the town he'd like catch up and go with us even if we want to be alone or whatever..
he's always there! it's really annoying... and he thinks he's beautiful.. when all the girls think he's revolting.. it's funny sometimes..
but god.. ugh.. and he aint the type of guy you can say 'get the hell away from me' because he just wont listen.. I've said so many times because he keeps rubbing me and he's always perving on my missus and everyone else's missus at that..
do you have one?
2007-11-29 06:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
soph - well I might be, but me and my GF maine go to dinner alone so.. some of them may dislike me, all of them might idk, they don't seem to try and get away from me though so how am I ment to know.. and one of my friends, Ken speaks his mind, so I know if he don't like me..
and I have told him to p*ss off so many times, he has ADHD.. but the stuff he does are out of his own bahaviour, he is a pretty bad bully to
there's a big girl who's in the lowest class.. I don't know her at all, but he's always like 'WHOAH!! LOOK AT IT MOVE!' really loud and I have whacked him one for doing it and I am humiliated to be around him because of what he's like
so if I actually try to have a civil conversation with him he'd prolly go off thinking I'm gay and go tell the rest of the lads and lasses or whatever
and one of you said 'what a missus' I'm guessing you're saying she's flirtatious around him.. far from.. she's friendly to him, but nothing flirty..
2007-11-29 06:48:14 · update #1
yeah.
it's called an attention whore.
tell 'em you have an infectious skin condition, and not to touch you.
2007-11-29 06:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by taking fire need assistance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Got a female friend like that. We like her okay, but sometimes her behavior is beyond annoying. For example, she's a bit of a "ho" and will steal your man if she gets the opportunity. She has to have everything her way, and she has no patience. She's very touchy, but she grabs your arm or wherever extremely hard and it hurts so bad.
The most annoying thing about her is that she's constantly on her cell phone. I've never seen anyone's phone go off as much as hers does. She's got tons of internet boyfriends and they're constantly calling and texting her. It's impossible to have a continous conversation with her because of it.
I finally just got to the point where I was extremely blunt with her. If she makes me mad, I tell her what she did and that I won't tolerate it. This makes being friends with her much easier. I found that as long as you draw the "battle lines" long and deep (clearly defined) the friendship is possible.
2007-11-29 14:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Bridey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every group has one of them types, but it takes a bigger man to take him to one side, and tell him sensitively that basically, he's starting to piss everyone off! Explain that his behaviour makes his friends feel uncomfortable and that your happy to hang out wiv him, when he's been sound! Also when you want to be alone, just tell him you need some couple time, or "my girlfriend has a problem, she wants to tell me something in private".
I will also say that all groups like to have someone that everyone likes to ***** about, don't do it, just tell him!
2007-11-29 14:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends????? What's that???? lol
No I don't have anyone like that in my crew but there is this mail delivery guy that comes into work sometimes and he's kind of annoying. He doesn't know when to shut-up. He can see I'm busy but he won't stop talking to me even when I tell him I better get back to work.
2007-11-29 15:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should talk to him seriously. Point him out and tell him " Hey I need to have a serious talk with you" "I don't want you to hang around with us anymore. If you WANT to hang around with us, stop touching us. We feel pretty uncomfortable when you do all that hugging, that it gets annoying." Make a serious face and make him feel that you mean what you're saying. Don't just ignore him and let him do that to you. You gotta stick up for yourself and face him.
2007-11-29 14:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Carlos I 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that everyone throughout life deals with one of those types of people at least once or twice. If he is overly, oddly out of bounds talk to a school counselor. Otherwise you will have to deal and find ways to avoid him.
2007-11-29 14:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has someone "similiar" to what you described in theur groups. Wouldn't life be crazy if we all had nice,educated,sane,nice-looking, optimistic friends who would absolutly do anything for you???!!! I guess there always has to be one of everything in any group we choose to be part of.
2007-11-29 14:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine is not as bad as all that!!! Wow, that "friend" of yours sounds mental! My friend in the group is just a bit conceded and irritating, but yours sounds downright creepy!
2007-11-29 14:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats a missus.
2007-11-29 14:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by Rocket_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.... but I would be careful.. you might be that guy to everyone else in your group...
2007-11-29 14:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋