My Girlfriend's friends are brainwashing her.
They are using all efforts to pull her away from me. She loves me but when she talks to one of her friends on phone she becomes too attentive that she does'nt even listens to me. I feel that girl is brainwashing her a lot.
We had sex 20-30 times & i made a lot of promises to her, but now i feel that our marriage can't be a success because i think that even after marriage her friend/s will influence her & keep on interfering in our life in an indirect manner.
Since, i made so much promises to this girl, will it be OK if i initiate the break-up.
Ps Note:- If i tell her not to talk with this girl or that girl she will say OK, but she will lie with me & keep on talking to these girls
I am in a tizzy & i pull my hairs as i love this girl very very very much but she sounds to be immature as the person who listens to another is immature. I am 27 & she is 21.
2007-11-29 06:14:10 · 11 answers · asked by vikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most girls tell their bfs everything. I draw the line though. I certailny dont tell about what goes on in the bedroom
2007-11-29 06:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is already showing you vast ampount of disrespect by a--talking about you and your private lives with others b--not giving heed to your wishes c--lying to you. All of the above equal disaster to a marriage. End it now while it is still free, move on and find a female who will show you some common respect and display good manners!
2007-11-29 06:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i ought to, with the aid of fact I did, and it labored out high quality. in the previous we've been given married, my spouse shared an place of residing along with her terrific chum and her terrific chum's boyfriend. properly, they broke up and the lady moved out, leaving the guy and my destiny spouse on my own at the same time contained in the place of residing. Neither of them ought to handle to pay for to break the hire, and that i wasn't rather waiting to have her as a stay-in lady chum on the time, so as that they stayed. in a roundabout way, it in no way brought about any problems.
2016-11-13 00:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's immature. Why should you be making promises to a girl who cannot show you proper respect. Use her until you are bored with her, then toss her away. She is a waste.
2007-11-29 06:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually you sound way too immature to even consider having a girl friend.
2007-11-29 06:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At least you found out before marriage what the score was.
Find a girl that's a little closer to your age or maturity.
2007-11-29 06:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its her age. I see alot of girls answering that they do tell their g/f's everything. Times must have changed, as me and my friends do not tell all. Private things are that.. private, and should remain that way.
2007-11-29 06:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep!! hey were girls, we even share boyfriends at times. j/k
let me tell you something....women are very manipulative and snake-ish at times, we have to see the truth when it slaps us in the face. let your "girl' keep talking, youll see that in time the wheels will turn on her.
2007-11-29 06:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points --- girlfriends are for keeps!
You sound too controlling - why can't she have friends?
2007-11-29 06:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you so insecure.......let her be....21yrs old...they are still part of the giggeling regime....if you really love her let it be, with time it should short it self out...don't hurry things...you can only loose!
2007-11-29 06:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by wife in South Africa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋